Struggling

It’s so hard trying to be positive in life when ppl are rude and things don’t seem to be looking up no matter how much I try. I just feel unloved, unwanted, and lonely.

[Crimson123]

Sorry you’re feeling like that : (

I hope you’re feeling better soon. Please rest in the knowledge and tell yourself that you are very important to God (and to us!) and He loves you even when things don’t look the brightest. Hugs, prayers and best wishes. Jesus loves you I do too!

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Thank you for taking time to respond to me. I really appreciate it. I will definitely try to talk to God More no matter how hard it may seem right now. Thanks again.

[Shanpa69]

Hi Bibob189

I’m sorry to hear your struggling l can totally relate to your current feelings and the current situation does not help but remember the world does have some nice people in it too and l bet you are one of them

When l feel like lm struggling l try to think about something that made me smile in the past and try and hold on to those memories as life is hard and challenging but remember you are have people on this forum who care...... try and be kind to yourself take care

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Thank you sooo much for responding to my post. That was kind of you. I will definitely try your recommendation and practice ways of being kind to myself.

[Hidden]

Hi BIBOB189,

I totally understand what your feeling right now, others have no understanding of how their words can cause so much harm from so little, it only takes a single comment from them, but with our internal monologue, that goes on to be much more. I have recently had a whole life change go on and it was all supposed to be good and great but it all feels so upside down. All you can do is recognise that these feelings we carry at all times are triggered today and get through today, let tomorrow come when it does. the lonelyness is probably the worst feeling to have but i have found this site and although i may be physically alone and unloved, just knowing you guys understand WITHOUT me having to explain, helps me to know i am not truly alone. just keep reaching out dont keep it all inside.hope this helps.

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Thank you so much for responding to my post. You’ve mentioned some good points. Thanks for sharing. Now I know that I’m not fully alone. 😇

[Roukaya]

I have read what you have said with an understanding

I am very much on my own and I have an elderly Mother who is by herself oversea

As I reached fifty I almost cried because I am unemployed and unmarried then I realised to appreciate all the positives O have achieved singlehandedly

I have been rejected all my life my family except my Mother

I now have realised that it is then who are wrong for causing so much pain

If they were good and kind humans such hurtful remarks would never originate from them

If they reject me if they attack me let them

I look to God for protection and love

I will never allows others to rubbish me ever again

[Hidden in reply to Roukaya]

Thank you for taking time to reach out to me. I appreciate it very much. Also, I’m glad that you’re able to look towards God and ignore rubbish as you call it. I hope your mom remains okay.