Worst Valentine’s EVER!!!!

[Bray1567]

My sister and my sister’s best friend caught my now ex with some other woman at a restaurant yesterday on Valentine’s Day. I am so depressed likeI thought he was the one but no matter what yall sayI’m sorry I am officially having trust issues cuz literally he been by my apartment all week saying he love and that I’m his just to cheat on me. I truly wanna kill myself honestly.

[Dolphin14]

I don't blame you for having issues. I would too.

Time to move on and find someone that will treat you better.

[Hidden]

You need to let the cheat go and move on, if you cannot trust the person it may be better that He goes now and you consider what you will need out of a relationship with a new partner. Try not to go out straight away to find someone nw give your self time. Looking for someone new on a bounce is not the best decision.

What did your boyfriend say he was doing ?,

BOB

[Hidden]

I thought you moved to a state with no family? If you have your sister and even her friends with you, lean them for support at this time.

You need to take of you now, boyfriend seemed to be impatient and not very understanding. The people that choose to love us, don’t just give up on us. Tough times is when we ban together more. He doesn’t have to understand depression, anxiety, or other disorders to love you, support you, show patience and understanding. He gave up on you, so don’t you think you deserve much more than that?

I wouldn’t give him any more of your energy, take that energy and focus on you, this paves the way for you to find someone much better than this.

[Bray1567 in reply to Hidden]

She isn’t my real sister she’s my God sister through Christening at a church. I have relatives here but my siblings all live back home. I am not close with the relatives that live in the place I moved to.

[Hidden in reply to Bray1567]

This is good and you have church and friends, lean on that support system. It’s good to have people care enough to make you aware. 🌺

Maybe you can get help from your real siblings, moving out of despair and into a place of healing, no one is ever worth saying you want to kill yourself over. ❤️

[Bcrawford16]

Even though this hurts like hell this is a BLESSING! Thank God that your sister and her best friend seen this. What if you would have married this guy and found out several years later he was a cheater? Look at all that time that could have been wasted! You deserve better and this guy is very immature. He will end up doing that girl the same way and it may take her longer to find out. You deserve a real man and don’t ever settle for less! Don’t ever let a man degrade you. You set your boundaries and if he crosses the line then let him go. That’s how you will find a true man that loves and respects you. Life is too short to deal with a cheating scumbag. Prayers for this difficult time but please let him go! You will be happy you did!

[Poodie]

Hi Bray.

Please don’t kill yourself. You are important and no one is worth killing yourself over. I know break ups are hard to take. I’ve been there as most of us have. Getting dumped with or without warning is also awful but some people do that to others too.

Do not let him treat you this way. If he does this now, he will probably always do it. Dating is suppose to be a time to get to know people. Well you just found out what this guy is like. Do not let him cheat and lie to you again. I know that is easy to say and hard to do. But love and respect yourself and get to know someone else.

I realize he has caused you to have trust issues, but maybe you can decide to give your heart away to someone who deserves you. Unfortunately, we never know if we can trust people right away because sadly, untrustworthy people are out there. That is just reality.

So take care of yourself now. Think about you. Keep posting to let people know how you are. There are lots of people on this site ready to support you.