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the stress of a stay at home mom

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I had a great day yesterday, went to a festival with my family and everything went really well. I woke up this morning and told myself today was going to be great and we were going to have fun. I suffer from depression and general anxiety, so being out and around all those people drained me and today was hard. I think I yelled too much and the kids just went to bed, so naturally I feel shittier.

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Aardbark

I know the feeling. When I feel like I'm about to yell at someone, I try to isolate myself from everyone and have a smoke.

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Balloon5

It’s very hard to try and better yourself when you have one hundred and one things to do at home. Do calming activities with the kids even if the house is a mess, have them sit in a circle with you on the floor and tell them it’s a quiet game, breathe in and out and collect yourself.

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Dolphin14

It's a tough job. You need your own time to recharge those batteries.

What do you do for you?

Is there time set aside for you?

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Kc29

You went to th one in Duluth Ga

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Esther228

I’m sorry that you are suffering from depression and anxiety. I’ve been there, too. Have you been to see a physician or counselor to see if they can offer some assistance? I was on an anti-depressant for a short period of time and started to feel much better. My depression came from dealing with my son, who had also been dealing with depression and anxiety. I know it is physically and mentally draining, and I pray that you find some relief.

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Chocoleo1969

Hi.Im a stay-at-home mom too and I struggle w depression. I empathize w you and how you're feeling. Some days definitely feel/seem more tolerable than others.

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GlassPoodle

It’s hard. I hate how having a wonderful day can all of a sudden turn to crap. I feel you. I always hate when I’ve been yelling and the kids have to go to bed after all that tension. I usually sleep bad as a result and then the next day is poop too! I am much worse on days when I have to be the public version of me. At the same time, several days with no plans to leave the house makes me stir crazy. It’s a loop!

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