Everyone's dream is to build a complete family. You are creating your own but someone is destroying it. This is the story of my life.

[EY58]

I am Anikka. I am a happy person, I always smile. But during the 5th month of my pregnancy, I started to become sad. I heard a lot of bad words from my Mom like "I will do anything to separate you from him", "I swear you will have difficulties in your pregnancy", "I will kill him and I dont care if you will have miscarriage", "That child is the fruit of you foolishness". She hates my boyfriend so much because he is a secondary/highschool graduate only. Even though he didnt go to college, even though he is from a poor family, I still love him. He works hard to fulfill his responsilibities as a father to my child and as a partner. But now, we decided to separate. I set him free because I know in myself that he couldn't endures the pain anymore. My mom always underestimate him. Although we're already separated, my mom wants to erase him in our life.

I dont know what to do. Until when I endure the pain? I just wanted to have my own family 😣

[Hidden]

It sounds like your mother is a very angry, and judgmental person ( I know how you feel, when in highschool I stopped introducing my mom to girls I was dating). I don’t really know what to say besides you have to be strong and stand by what you believe, and if you are true to yourself then hopefully one day you’ll be smiling again. It sounds like an incredibly difficult situation. it sounds like you want both your mother and the father of your child to be in your life and there is no reason you shouldn’t be able to have that. I’m sure there will be some more insight from someone who’s been in your shoes soon, I just want to offer my support and try my best to help in these difficult times.

[EY58 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much.

[Hidden in reply to EY58]

Sometimes little things to escape the stress is nice, going for a walk to see some nature. And I always love some good music and deep breaths( or singing along) whatever strikes your fancy :). But try not to dwell on the words and actions of someone who is angry, I know I still do sometimes. It is easier said than done. Especially when it’s someone you love.

[Lotus4sce]

If you still love him I would be with him to have your family especially if you feel he's doing all that he can . It's your life not your moms