Don’t know where things are

[Photographyanimal]

I am about to make a five hour drive to stay with my folks for a week. He still isn’t talking to me. I don’t want it was that I did that was so horrible. I don’t know what I’ve done. How can he say he loves me and then treat me like this...he says he needs time and space for a week to a week and a half. I feel so much pain...I feel like I’m dying inside. He won’t talk to me. I don’t know what he is thinking...I’m afraid he is going to decide not to stay with me...I’m losing all hope...I don’t know what to do...

[hypercat54]

Do you want him to stay with you if he treats you like this? If this is symtomatic of your relationship then I don't know how you can deal with it and still stay together. I hope you both find a way through it. x

[dbeck128]

I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time. Not under the same circumstances, but my boyfriend and I have done the same thing as in taking a break. We were basically on the last straw with each other and I went to my moms for a few days. Everything worked itself out but I think the key was to actually give each other space and not rush things.

I wish I could help you, but I only have the advice from what I went through. Show him what its like to live without you, and maybe hell start to miss you.

[hard2say]

Being in a relationship is not only hard work but it is complicated.

You need to be 100% confident that YOU love yourself AMD that you are worthy of that kind of love prior to any relationship.

There is no guarantee that this person will come back... but not talking to you is not acceptable. It feels like they are trying to escape.. don't chase them.. it won't make them want to stay. Begin the process of understanding that maybe you were not meant to be together. Just take the time to understand who you are.. and how precious time is. Breathe... it feels like you can't go on.. especially alone.. but you can...