I’ve been unemployed for 7 weeks, and have really hustled since then trying to get a job. Now I’m getting requests for several phone interviews in rapid succession.
I’m also moving next week. My boyfriend of 17 years and I have agreed to give our relationship one more chance. I’m almost overwhelmed by everything I have to do to get ready to move. Plus worrying about us working out the relationship. But I have to try, or I’ll regret it the rest of my life.
And on top of that, I’m feeling some existential angst. I’m 55, my bf is 60. All my friends and my brother are in their 50s. We’re getting to an age where a lot of us have lost parents....some of us are winding down careers or have kids leaving the nest. This is another stage of life that I’m getting into, and it’s scary. My father will be 80 later this year. He and I finally have a good relationship, but my mother died about 18 months ago. I know that in the nature of things, it’s only a matter of time before my father leaves me, too.
I just feel like I’m going through a lot of losses, and I’m scared, and I wonder if I’ll ever feel good about life again. I can’t help reviewing in my mind all the mistakes I’ve made in my life, and thinking everything bad is all my fault.