Getting over

[Sadandalone627]

What is the quickest way to get over someone when you feel betrayed? I wish I can forget about everything and get on with my life.

[RAYOFHOPE88]

I'm dealing with the same issue. I've cut all contact, gotten a makeover, try hard to focus my mind on other things, and I never beat myself up about it. Don't let the person who betrayed you take your power ☺.

[Sadandalone627 in reply to RAYOFHOPE88]

It's so hard not wanting to contact and confront the person. But you are right. I shouldn't give the person too much power because he is not even worth my time. With that said, I'm still elapsed from time to time, wanting to contact the person. I just want to forget about it soon and move on. It is killing me inside.

[RAYOFHOPE88 in reply to Sadandalone627]

It's been almost 3 months since I've talked to or seen my ex. I finally decided that I was done giving him my tears. The first month was unbearable. I wanted to contact him everyday. But things got easier the second month. The breakup set me back a few steps because I was really in love. It takes time to heal. I'm still a work in progress. We'll walk on together 🤗.

[Sadandalone627]

Thank you for sharing the experience. I just feel low about myself because I was not good enough for him to stay. But i will try to focus on other things that will make me happy.

[RAYOFHOPE88 in reply to Sadandalone627]

You are good enough. You're actually better than enough. Men usually don't miss a good thing until it's gone. Let's enjoy 2019 🤗.