I know it's been a while.

[8518114]

I know it's been a while since I've been online. I thought that there was another place I should be. I finally realized that I should be here. I know that there are more people here that understand me and how I am. My boyfriend (fiancé} although he may have operated a drug and alcohol rehab, does not know how I feel or what I'm thinking or feeling. I love him a whole lot. I just get upset and angry when he says "I Know." I really don't like it. I also don't like it when he says I said something when I know I didn't. I just get frustrated. Sometimes I want to scream.

[beautyoutofashes54]

8518114 Happy New Year and hoping it will be filled with love, joy, peace and laughter. If I read your post correctly your fiancé runs a rehab for drugs and alcohol? If this is the case and he believes “he knows” your feelings, he has a lot to learn and maybe he needs to try going to therapy in order to be in a mature relationship. I have been through a lot of education and the school of hard knocks, but I believe everyday we should be open to learning one new thing. There is no one I know of who can read another’s feelings. One can guess or assume, but the only person who really knows is you. I would ask him what it is he thinks he knows. Have you suggested therapy as individuals and a couple? If you cannot talk to him without his knowing what your going to say, is this really the relationship you want to be in? I believe communication is top priority in a relationship and if you cannot do it now it will only get worse. Hope this helps and gives you something to think about. Beautyoutofahses54

[8518114 in reply to beautyoutofashes54]

Thank you so much.I do remind him that he doesn't know what I'm thinking and that does help. I think because he used to run the rehab center, he thinks he's so smart. He may be smart however, I'm smart in a different way. Again thank you.