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I feel the need to tell everybody that I am bi-sexual, I am only doing this because I feel ready to let everybody know and thought I would start on here because it’s easier as nobody knows who I am.

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aaronm

Well I am too but at 43 and married with 10 kids I haven't been bi in a while.

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kenster1

hey you are what you are and you shouldn't hide it as it just adds to your worries.go out and embrace it you are still the same person after all.dont be afraid tell the world and get the weight off your shoulders.

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Redfox9

Yes, there's no one to judge you here, but you have to come out with your sexual orientation in public, people will judge you, may be bully you, but you have to face them. You only get one life, don't waste it on thinking that people will judge, whatever you will do people will always find a way to bully and troll you, but it's upto you what you will do ignore then or react to them. Throw everyone out of your life who judge you or think bad about you. You will anyway find people who have broad minded thinking, whom you can talk to without having fear of being judge.

One think i learnt that it's better to stay alone or with a pet, rather then being with snakes.

Hope you will feel better, and everything in your life is sorted.😊😊

You know, I’ve never really understood why we have to “come out”... Straight people don’t have to announce that they are straight. So why do we? I think you should do what you’re comfortable with. I am now dating a woman for the first time in my life, & I didn’t make this big “outing” experience. I just brought my person over to the house for dinner. Sure, my family had some questions. Most of them just accepted me with open arms & didn’t question me at all. I wish you well on your journey to discovering who you are. It takes a long time for many of us to ever figure that out. Good luck & be happy! You deserve it! xoxo

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Dutch-girl

Good for you! I'm trying to reveal to people that I have OCD and that is difficult too. I'm learning that it feels so much better letting it out than stressfully trying to hide it. Keep going!

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Stilltrying_

That's great Kayle and the best of both worlds i would say. Isn't it great just to love people whether they be male or female :) x

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Kay_

Thank you all 🙏🏼

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Windy101

Good for you for coming out! We are each made to be beautifully unique and this is something that's core to who you are. Thank you for trusting us.

Remember, you don't have to tell people you don't trust. I am very careful who I share my depression with, and there are some things i just don't talk about at all unless I am confident I won't be judged.

You should be proud of yourself for acknowledging who you are - a brave and multi-facted, interesting person!

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sarengeti

Be proud of who you are. Yes, come out of the closet and let the world know who you are.

Someone asked Harvey Milk “ What can I do to educate people and make the world a better place?” His answer—“ Come out of the closet. You will do a huge favor to our global community “.

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