The loss of my bestfriend

[Abbysmith181]

On July 17 I listen my best friend in a car wreck an hour after she dropped me off at my house. I loved her and she was my person. I have friends but they all have best friends and I feel so alone. It’s hit me hard these past few weeks and idk what to do anymore. All I want is Bri. But she’s gone and I can’t get her back.

[Celtic27]

Hi abby I'm so sorry you've lost your friend I know its early days but think of the good times you had together and she's in your heart all the time God bless you 🙏🙏

[Littlebrowngal50]

I responded to your other post. If you need to process I’m here for you. I may be older but I feel and empathize with your pain. I lost my older sister who was like a mom to me in 1990 from domestic violence. We were very close. It was such a shock! I remember screaming and crying into the phone when my aunt in North Carolina (I live in Honolulu, Hawaii) told me she was dead. That’s exactly what she said, “G**a, V*****e’s dead.” She first asked for my mom...but I knew she’d never call out of the blue like she did that afternoon around 2 weeks before Thanksgiving, if something wasn’t wrong or had happened. My younger sister then came into my room yelling....”what’s wrong? what’s going on? who’s that on the phone? stop screaming & crying!” I sobbed V*****e’s dead!” as I sunk to the floor, shoving the phone into her hand. She would be 64 on Saturday the 20th. She did leave a beautiful living legacy by a son, my nephew (who unfortunately witnessed her passing), but that’s another story for another time. He’s now 38, married to a wonderful, loving, understanding and patient woman. The father of a girl and 3 boys. They’re raising 3 beautiful girls (her’s but loved as his from the very beginning) and a son (created together). His 2 oldest (boy & girl) he’s not in touch with. Last I heard they’re in Texas with their mom who rarely let my nephew see them when they lived here. His other son is living on the beach (unfortunately homeless with his mother) that my nephew used to go pick up every weekend to take care of but as of today....idk but my mom recently went to the area where they live on the beach to give away a bed, clothing, and other stuff to the families living there. She asked me to get some unused clothes together that she can give since most of the women are around my size lol. I know what you’re going through and what you’re going to feel and go through. I’ve been you. Hell baby girl.... I am you, back in 1990. Keep your head up!! Take it day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute, second by second if you have to.... but don’t give up!! She loves you!! She’ll be with you and watching over you until that time comes to be reunited with all the loved ones we lost and have gone before us.....