About last night...

[ronnellstc]

So my boyfriend and I went shopping last night, and i had a few outburts. I am almost 10 months post gastric bypass, and don't really know what size clothing I wear ( i pretty much live in scrubs due to work) so i get very anxious and nervous about buying any clothes, and I also hate spending money when i can think of other things it could go to. I know i need to buy clothes, as everything i own is about 10 sizes too big. But because of this i may have snapped at my boyfriend a few times. I feel horrible because i let my anxiety get the best of me, and it's not right that i yelled at him. But it's hard explaining to him my self image issues. He is post gastric bypass as well ( 2yrs). I am currently about 150lbs lost, but i still am very self aware of my size, and its soo depressing when looking for clothes, i dont want to buy anything, because in a month it will be too big.

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Try the local goodwill or salvation army. You can find brand new things without spending a lot of money and it benefits a good cause. I shop at both. Hope this helps. Wishing you well!!

[writingforjoy]

Congratulations on your success, it is not easy to follow through with your plans laid out by the doctor and that in itself is to be celebrated!!

I understand the struggle to buy clothes that won't fit long. I am in the process of buying bigger clothes and cringe at the thought, as I hope I won't stay here or keep getting heavier.

I love the idea of consignment or thrift stores as an option, also charity fundraisers may have clothing.

How about hosting a clothing swap party for local woman? Some woman like me going up in size may not want to buy more clothes and have things your size. Also, this is a great way to try a variety of styles and sizes and not spend. Even if you don't find what you want a new set of friends can be a blessing.

Perhaps shopping without your significant other will make the process less stressful.

I pray that you find the peace in this new journey. You are doing great!!

Best wishes~