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Don't you just love having to wait? lol

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Hi all! Brian here! Again, sorry I haven't posted as much but I've really mentally fatigued with all that's been going on.

Well, saw the doctor overseeing my case yesterday. My MRI can back clear, which means the cancer hasn't spread to my lungs, which is a plus. The CT scan on the tumor came back the way the doctor thought it would. He's pleased with how things have been going, so he said it's time to schedule me for surgery. I don't have the exact date yet, but he said it will probably be in the next 2 to 3 weeks. Both he and the plastic surgeon have to get together and see when they're both available, since the doctor I saw yesterday will actually be the one removing the tumor. The plastic surgeon will be doing the reconstructive phase of the surgery once the oncologist has finished. So, a huge weight lifted off my shoulders lol Now, the waiting game starts. Don't you just love having to wait? lol I've missed talking to all of you and hopefully I'll be on Friday to chat and offer some positive vibes. :) If anyone wants to keep in touch with me, just shoot me a PM and we can chat :)

Your friend,

Brian :)

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Hi Brian you seem in good spirits despite everything you're going through.i suppose if you don't laugh you'll cry hope it's giving your head a boost you keep it up and rest as much as you can take it easy hope you keep us all up to date when you can take care buddy

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bridder01 in reply to rome1977

Will do 😀

I am new to this site and your message touched me. I am a two time cancer survivor and i know what your going through. Just keep in mind, after everything, the pain will subside and you will have a deeper appreciate for life. Im wishing you the best my new friend! God is with you!!

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Thanks! I'll keep that in mind 😀

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Jamie2018

That's good news! But yes I agree the waiting is the worse. Hope the wait isn't too stressful for you. Soon it will be all over and you'll be on the road to recovery. Good to hear from you

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bridder01 in reply to Jamie2018

Thanks! Back at ya 😀

So lovely to see you on here !!! And I’m so happy to hear it hasn’t spread x

Ugh waiting around is the worst isn’t it ! But I hope you keep your spirits high! Thanks for updating us even though you’re going through so much already x

I hope everything goes well and you are all recovered soon x 💕 miss you!

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Thanks Hope! Missed you too 😀

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Starrlight

Blessings to you 💕

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bridder01 in reply to Starrlight

Thanks Starr! 😀

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metalminded

That's great news Brian! Best of luck with the surgery! Keep us posted!!

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bridder01 in reply to metalminded

Will do Leigh 😀

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morenews

Brian so happy to read your post. It is good everything is going

according to the plan. Will be praying for you, for successful surgery and fast recovery.

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bridder01 in reply to morenews

Thanks! 😀

Been holding you in my prayers and sending thoughts of healing and peace your way......

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Thanks Paris! Much appreciated! 😀

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gogogirl

Brian, you are one amazing human! Congratulations on the latest results and finally looking forward to the finish line! Keeping your wit and your wits about you has no doubt given you an edge to this place. May you not wait much longer. Please keep us informed!

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bridder01 in reply to gogogirl

Thanks Gogo! Will do 😀

I will be thinking of you Brian! I so admire your courage and outlook. If anyone deserves a break, it’s you! I also hate waiting, but this is a big deal and waiting for the doctors to coordinate everything appropriately for you is desired. I know that you’ll come through with flying colors because that’s just who you are and what you’re all about! Something worth waiting for Brian!!

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Thanks! Can't wait to hit that finish line! 😀

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