Depress

[lordken]

How can I focus with all the things hitting me hard in life.Women can make life either beautiful or just make you less of human

[hypercat54]

So can men. And friends, parents, siblings, family, work colleagues etc. I wonder if you are putting too much pressure on women to provide you with emotional support and outlets? You need to be able to make yourself happy first without relying on others. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Well said! I feel like your post was just what I needed to read right now😃 Thank you👍🏽

[lordken]

Thank you your answer makes a lot of sense

[lordken]

But how exactly are u able to train yourself from being emotionally dependent on a lady to becoming self satisfied without this daily emotional attachment.A new lady can’t still fill the vacuum.

[Hidden in reply to lordken]

You have to work on yourself. Do things that will better you as a person. Take up some hobbies. Get involved in your community. You have all the tools and skills needed inside you to make yourself happy!!!😊💘

[hypercat54 in reply to lordken]

By not putting all your emotional eggs in one basket. Men are notorious for doing this whereas women tend to have female friends to offload to. Seek other people you can talk to about things that matter to you. x

[deborah27]

focus on the things hitting you hard in life i suppose.