Sorry I know this is my second post today but I just heard something that made me think.
I heard that due to ones trauma (or rather the fact that it hasn't been worked through) in their lives it leads to fear or something along those lines.
So I'm thinking that because of my trauma whether it's my childhood trauma or perhaps the trauma from my last relationship I feel "out-of-control" because in those instances I didn't have any and now strive to have a sembalance of some.
So I'm saying all of that, if it is in fact the trauma from my last relationship, how would I in fact love past it?
I was in that situation for 4 years and 7 months, I know it's going to take time to work through. I'm just wondering how about to do it.
Dumb question I know and maybe this post is just a bunch of rambling but I thought it was interesting.