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The closer it gets to my daughter being here the more I want to be with her father regardless of how he has treated me in the past, but then again my family threatens to never speak me again if I am with him. Wish we had our own place or He could just move in here rather than us have to live at his parents... It'd be so much better on our relationship.

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Jj30039

I have meds but my doctor said u got to take them to get better but I just don't want it to be a part of my life I have 3 kids 2 3 6 I hate for them to see momma like that which they don'

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hypercat54

LB why do you want to be with someone who is verbally and physically abusive towards you? He doesn't love you he just wants someone to control and take his anger out on. Nothing will change you know and it can only get worse. You need to stay away from this dangerous unstable control freak unless you want to live your life as his punching bag.

But if you do then that is your choice and I can only wish you luck. x

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So very true. Life is too short to waste time with toxic people!!!! XXX

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chaoticjoy3

I think all to often it is almost natural to want to slip back into those places of familiarity, even if they were dark places. After all you have been through with this man, is this what you believe love looks like? Is it patient, and kind, and safe? If you had a daughter or close friend would this relationship be acceptable for them? Praying for you as you face this, that you are able to see the promise the future holds for you and your baby, as you try and make this decision, focus on what you want your future to look like for you and your son.... Prayers to you!

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