Stigma

[lovedogs51511]

I didn't want to upset anyone by talking about the stigma with mental illness its just how ppl have been around me. They treat me like I'm weird or just not talk to me. It just hurts so much that ppl have always treated me differently. On this site I don't feel alone. I appreciate being able to talk with others that deal with this same illness. So thank you all!!! Again I didn't mean anything bad about talking about the stigma ppl put on us. Have a blessed day to everyone!!!💝😀

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Right back at you beautiful girl! I love you!!!! A big warm hug from me! XXX

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Lisa. Love you too💝😀💝 Your friendship means the world to me😀😀 hugs loves and prayers

[Sprinkle1]

Hello, yes the stigma is still there!! I admire your willingness to brave being around people. I myself do not mention my illness unless I feel am in a safe place. Mental illness frightens most people & they do not know how to deal with it and their own fear. I have had my battle most of my 75 years, I do not let it bother me (Bipolar 1) as I know I am not dangerous, I laugh at myself as much as I can daily. I live in the moment - tis the only thing we have. I would try to find a support group to fit your needs, people are generally so helpfull and one can make new friends. My biggest bother is my med's, I have been gong thru a year long bout with depression, anxiety and panic (awful), one Big reason the med's are Not working and/or the side affects are intolerable. So now we are doing what I call pill roulette. Other than that I get on with my life. So hang in there sister, there are millions of us in the large boat. Hope this letter is of help for you. Sending Peace, Love & Big Hugs.....Sprinkle 1

[Sandia in reply to Sprinkle1]

You mentioned your meds are not working, that actually happen to me as well. I was on a med for many years and suddenly it just stop working for me and I had to switch. Now here we go with trying a new med and seeing if it works, and wait out the awful adjustment period when I usually feel sick. I’m hoping this one works because I’d rather not switch again, it was hard for me in the beginning to find a med that worked. Good luck! I hope you can find a med that works well for you and you can have some peace.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Sprinkle1]

Hi there😀 I really appreciate your message. I completely agree with you. I usually only mention my depression and anxiety. Like you said I don't like mentioning the bipolar 2. Ppl are afraid when you talk about it. But if ppl react differently towards me cause of it. I try and just tell myself those ppl are never worth my time. Like you I laugh about it. Laughter helps so much. We are all caring folks and our illness doesn't make us bad ppl! We rock!!!😀💝😀

[Vonnah]

I understand and feel the same. I am afraid about relationships. How could they not judge me or blame me you know?

I hope you feel better❤ hopefully you find a friend one day that truly understands and cares and treat you no different. 😘💜☺

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Vonnah]

Thanks Vonnah!! I figure if you can't like me for me then those ppl aren't worth my time. Your a great person and I like talking with you cause your genuine😀😀

[Vonnah in reply to lovedogs51511]

I couldn't agree more! They aren't worth it.....they are missing out on a real friend like you! Which is so hard to find in this crazy big world. Thank you your so sweet!💜😊

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Vonnah]

Hiya!! I couldn't agree more😀 Those ppl are the ones who lose. I truly believe we are better ppl than those ones who judge us. We are all such caring and warm hearted folks!! Thanks so much for your kind words. Means a lot. How are you tonight? Do you still have that cool job?? Is your boss treating you with respect? He or she better!! You deserve the up most respect💝😀💝

[Vonnah in reply to lovedogs51511]

Friday was a bad day. I had too much anxiety and its even more frustrating since I'm on medicine but it hasn't worked yet i guess. It's so overwhelming when i have to ring up people's orders and make their drinks. I can't hardly remember all what they freaking say!!!!!!!😵 it's too much---not for me. So afraid to tell that to my managers so they stop scheduling me at the food area. Even walking food out to their tables.....I hope i never drop someone's food that just got put out on the counter😰 I've already messed up 2 customer's order yesterday. People can be so mean and rude about food and the people trying to serve them the best they can😒🚫😤👊😡😲👎💢

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Vonnah]

Vonnah if they are mean just give them no attention at all if you can. That's really amazing that you can do that job cause I could never handle that kind of anxiety. I don't remember anything ppl say if,I'm talking to them face to face. So I think your brave to fight thru that anxiety doing that job. I mean that sincerely. I can only image how high your anxiety would be serving ppl. I think your doing great. I agree ppl are so rude to waitresses. They probably have anxiety as well. That's what I tell myself when I get dirty looks. The hell with those rude ppl. We're both awesome ppl.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to lovedogs51511]

I'm so sorry but I took some sleeping pills and I'm getting sleepy. Hope you have a great morning. Maybe I chat with you tomorrow hopefully. Hugs, your friend Kacey

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I understand and it's not fair. It hurts.