Which way to turn

[Emmachaney4]

So i lost my mum to cancer last year September 29th and now my dad as lung cancer I’m still grieving for mum, my head feels like it’s going to explode the thing is I no what to expect this Time round why is life so cruel 😢

[fauxartist]

I'm so very sorry for your loss and that you are now dealing with your dad's illness, hope you have someone or a group to go to that you can get support and people who can understand what your going through.

[Emmachaney4 in reply to fauxartist]

Iv got my sisters and brother wer are supporting each over, I can’t understand why, I’m suffering from anxiety at best of times but this as topped it of, thank you

[ImInTroubleAgain]

I too lost my mom; to heart disease. My father passed two years ago as well; throat cancer. I know what you are going through is very hard to cope with. It may feel like life is so cruel right now, but eventually you will be able to move on. It’s been a year and a half since the day my mom passed and I’m sure I lost my grip that day. It’s been rough, but it’s so much better now. You have to remember that it’s all a natural part of life and this will not happen once or twice... you will lose your closest loved ones throughout life and the people who love you, will lose you as well. I don’t mean to come off unsympathetic. The best way I found to cope with losing those you love most, is acceptance, time, and forgiveness. Your father is still here, make the best of your moments together. I know you’ll feel better. It’s hard to see that in the eye of the storm.

[Emmachaney4]

I no what ur saying is so true, it’s just so hard to except it I suppose iv learned to live with out my mum now for 5 months it’s been very hard but iv got 4 beautiful young children that as helped me I’m planning to make the best of memories with my dad, thank you 😊

[ImInTroubleAgain]

So beautiful to have children 😊 They will learn so much from how you handle this. Be strong. I’ll whisper prayers in hopes of better days for you. You got this!

[Emmachaney4]

Aww thank u, thay see me with every emotion and i am all ways open with them if I think thay can handle it I will tell it as it is thay no there grandad isn’t well and thay understand if thay see me up set it’s just heartbreaking seeing them and me losing someone we love again, I’m the oldest out of my sisters and brother and I’m the strongest in these situations .