i hate my life

[zouarisamar]

i just woke up ..went to the beach with family ...mum nagging keeps telling me how much am worthless ...am nothing ... i wish i die

[erraticthoughts7]

Listen closely. Death is not just some word you through around just because you are down-in-the-dumps. Death is a force or an energy in the universe and if you keep calling it, it will come. You are not as powerless as you think. Gather information about what you are experiencing and start confronting your issues.

[Findingme]

Why is it that people think that by telling you that you are worthless it will somehow motivate you into becoming a success? Or is it that they feel a failure and are taking it out on you. Or are they aware that you are growing up and may leave them and they try to undermine you so you stick around and be their reason to exist. Parents whose kids are about to leave the nest can feel panicked about this.

Whichever it is, you are not worthless. Perhaps, rather than listening to your Mum and internalisiing this message about yourself, try meditating and mindfulness to find some calmness, which will then help you find your own direction. You may find you have to persevere without support though, as once parents get set into a critical mindset it is hard for them to stop.

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You have received some very good replies to your posts, so I don't need to be wise, thoughtful or mature....So, open your mouth a little, stick out your tongue and make the "rasberry" sound when you hear such garbage coming from your mum's mouth.

(But don't do it you think she'll throw you out of the house...and if you don't know what a "rasberry" sound is, just sticking out your tongue may make you feel better, as that makes about the same sense as what your mum is saying.)

I wasn't fortunate to have a child....and right now your mum doesn't appreciate how fortunate she is to have you....but sometimes mums' aren't perfect.