Chemistry and ADHD

[Stavros_]

So if you see my previous post I had a crush, turns out, he didn't feel the same, and although, he said, we had great conversations, we understood eachother, have compatible values etc, he did feel the chemistry. That chemistry was something I wasn't feeling very strong too, even when I tried and we had fun and teased each other, something wasn't clicking. And then i started to wonder, when have I ever felt that chemistry. I think I haven't, I've always felt that block, like I am not developed, or let's say, if that chemistry was produced by an organ, mine would be malfunctioning. I know I am overthinking, and I know that I haven't had any experiences with relationships but still. I haven't felt that feeling, not even with friends and I was never able to fully connect with someone. So something is going on and I don't know what it is. I don't know what it's called, and I don't know how to fix it. I feel a heavy sense of disappointment and devastation that I won't be able to have any meaningful relationships. What should I do, what is going on? If anyone knows or has felt that way please say something.

Thank you again for reading this far.

[Queen_of_Tara]

I feel like the best advice is to work on yourself...to love yourself...relationships will form easier once you feel more trust and compassion inside. No magical advice but that's my advice from my own experience.