I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. I always had reading difficulty but I couldn't tell what was wrong when I was young. My issue is this: while reading a sentence for example, I tend to skip over words or skim through words so quick without fully understanding what the word was (like I misread "similar looking words" and then I go back because the sentence didn't make sense and realize I misread). It's so difficult and would make me physically unrest if I try to slow myself down. I tend to feel that if I read slowly I will not comprehend the sentence (I say myself "working memory is volatile and when I read slow, my it already forgot what was at the beginning and I lose track"), and so I read "faster" but I tend to skip and misread words (like I said) and this leads to poor comprehension. It is also very mentally taxing for me and sometimes gives me headaches. I try to find my "tempo" but then I say, "I wouldn't complete it at this rate and it'd take forever so read faster... and faster". I am not sure if I have other underlying condition or learning disability. But I tend to have so much difficulty pacing myself while reading (when to pause, when to skim, finding right tempo, patience while reading, etc.).
Can others relate to reading difficulties similar to the one I mentioned? How do you manage it? What advice would you give me?