My mind is spinning out of control , as I can't answer the question -- "am I putting up with too much in relationships?" and "should I stay or should I go"?Does anyone have the same questions ?! And or do u just constantly feel like you're not sure if it's you (you're ADD mind) or the other person?!How are we to tell the diff?! I have moments where I ask myself "wtf am I doing here, I'm leaving once and for all" and then not long after I'm mentally blaming myself , telling myself I just over think, or over react. Or I just forget the details of what's upsetting me, and continue on in this cycle, never getting anywhere- never growing together or as an individual- just feeling stuck. My thoughts , goals and ideas r inconsistent and scattered and My memory comes to a screeching halt in times when I need it most -- thus making it harder to piece together my thoughts to create a whole image- an image of what I want my life to look like, now and in the future. Without this image, it's hard to make decisions that will put me on the path to creating it. I have to figure this out some how, as the stress is affecting all aspects of my life. I'm 28 and just feel- i can't keep waisting time--I need to make up my mind one way or another as my life is in limbo because of this. Any advice? Does anyone here struggle with this? I never thought indecisiveness would plague my relationships too.