Macc19922 years ago

Hello Not sure if I am to late but I would love to be apart of the study. Thanks

andyomon in reply to Macc19922 years ago

You're not too late. I would would be more than happy to interview you. My email is andrewjobeng@gmail.com. Please feel free to email me there or chat me on here so we can set up a time to talk. Thanks again.

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lmctrail2 years ago

Hi Andrew, I have ADHD and have been with my husband for over 4 years. It has definitely impacted my romantic relationship and I would love to interview about it! Let me know how you would like to conduct the interview and how I can help you out!

Lindsay

andyomon in reply to lmctrail2 years ago

I would be more than happy to talk to you. feel free to contact me either using the forums chat or email me at andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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bigbrain2 years ago

Hi Andrew, sounds like an awesome project. I have ADHD and have been in a relationship for the last four years. I am happy to talk about the many ways my ADHD affects my relationship. I am sure my partner could provide insight as well, from a neurotypical perspective, lol.

andyomon in reply to bigbrain2 years ago

Thank you so much for willing to be a part of my project. Feel Free to contact either direct message me here on the forum or reach out via my email at andrewjobeng@gmail.com so we can set up a time to chat.

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DefinitionReclaimed2 years ago

Hi Andrew,

Perhaps you've already seen these, but here are a couple things that may help in your literature review for your project.

Thing #1:

"“For this first chart, I sorted by this first question, sorted from highest to lowest: ‘Which of your ADHD Partner’s traits attracted you?’ [online survey fielded Oct. 2004 - Spring 2005; n=162]” (source: adhdrollercoaster.org/categ...; also see: adhdrollercoaster.org/about... )

Survey question: "Which of your ADHD Partner’s traits attracted you?"

DefinitionReclaimed in reply to DefinitionReclaimed2 years ago

Thing #2:

"Figure: Partner relationship difficulties associated with adult ADHD: UK results from the European Lifetime Impairment Survey. Reproduced with kind permission from Pitts M et al. Arch Psychiatr Nurs 2015; 29: 56-63.” (source: adhd-institute.com/ADHDacro... )

Survey: Partner relationship difficulties associated with adult ADHD

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Love-cats in reply to DefinitionReclaimed2 years ago

Thanks so much for posting this!Quite valuable information 😊

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DefinitionReclaimed in reply to Love-cats2 years ago

Just remembered one more! Thing #3:

adultadhdbook.com/adhd-rela...

youtube.com/watch?v=m8QNRpN...(Not working as expected?)

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Love-cats2 years ago

CLEMSON! 😊🤗We live in Charleston and my husband and SIX of his relatives are Clemson grads! GO TIGERS!!

So glad to hear you’re doing this study seeing as I have ADHD AND am a masters-level social worker!

Definitely need more research in this area.

Please reach out to me.

Would love to participate!

andyomon in reply to Love-cats2 years ago

I'd be more than happy to talk to for my project. Please feel free to reach out to me either via direct message or email at andrewjobeng@gmail.com so we can set up a time to chat.

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RCJH86102 years ago

ADHDer here 🙋🏻‍♀️ and in August I’ll be celebrating 11 years of marriage. I would be glad to share my experience. 🤓

andyomon in reply to RCJH86102 years ago

Would you still be willing to talk to me? If so you can contact me at andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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DSAS2 years ago

Happy to help. Just got dumped again!!

andyomon in reply to DSAS2 years ago

I am sorry to hear that and you have my deepest condolences. I would be happy to interview you for my study. Please feel free to reach out to me either via direct message or email at andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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Colorado3872 years ago

You can reach out if you need another person to interview. My relationship is on the brink of being over (mostly because my adhd got progressively worse last year), but it had been over six years.

andyomon in reply to Colorado3872 years ago

Would you still be willing to do the interview? if you are please contact me andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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wtfadhd2 years ago

Sure, I’m almost divorced n in another relationship with a wonderful chill man that is struggling with my ADHD anger, rage, low tolerance, sensitivity, etc...

andyomon in reply to wtfadhd2 years ago

Are you still open to an interview? if you are please contact me andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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storygeek2 years ago

Emailing you, I'd be happy to interview.

andyomon in reply to storygeek2 years ago

I would be deeply appreciative if you would. Contact me at andrewjobeng@gmail.com

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LittleMsRN2 years ago

Hi Andrew, I have ADD diagnosed in childhood and then confirmed again as an adult as severe innatentive type. I have been with my fiance 3.5 years and we are getting married in June. I would love to help.

Lauren

andyomon in reply to LittleMsRN2 years ago

Howdy, Lauren.

I'd be more than happy to talk to you. Please either DM me on the site or contact me at andrewjobeng@gmail.com so we can set up a time to chat.

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ActiveGirl2 years ago

Hi Andrew, I don't know if you still need to make some interviews... I'm currently getting my diagnosis and have been in a relationship for 2 years now

andyomon in reply to ActiveGirl2 years ago

I am still looking for people and would be happy to talk to you. Please either DM here or at andrewjobeng@gmail.com so we can set up a time to chat. Look forward to hearing from you.

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Shittyperson252 years ago

Hello,I've has ADHD since the age of 5 now at 25 I'm attempt to find multiple coping methods. In all honesty my relationship is in shambles because of my own mental health. Send me an email if I'm not to late,man. Love to give you some incite

Gem1n12 years ago

Not currently in a relationship, but have been in two different relationships in the past 3 years. Let me know if you need my help!

Lotsanew2 years ago

Too late? If you still need people I’d be happy to chat. I was not diagnosed during ALL my relationships and I can now see how ADHD played a major roll in choosing and destroying relationships. Let me know!