Hello. I’m new to this site and was wondering if anyone had suggestions. I have a slew of issues, but today this one is bothering me the most. On the short, I was diagnosed with ADD and severe depression when my Post Partum Depression went undiagnosed for 3 years. Probably my fault for not reaching out to a doctor, but I guess I buried my self deep into a hole! So now the twins will be 10 in a couple of days. My boy twin was just diagnosed with ADHD. He and I get along fabulously and I try really hard to be patient and understanding of his issues. My daughter twin on the other hand is complete opposite of us/me. Her and I but heads all the time. I swear she has OCD! So she is very particular about things and loves to plan every single hour of her day. There is no grey area for her... it’s either black or white. I think I live in the grey area. Any suggestions on how to calm my brain down so that I can have a better relationship with her? She is my only daughter!