My wife has depression, anxiety, and untreated ADHD. She has decided to separate from our marriage, but the distance is creating more issues for her. Between her work, parenting or being away from our son, and not balancing life in general her mental state keeps deteriorating. I am trying to be supportive and loving, but she keeps pushing away. She has bouts of anger, impulsive actions, rejection sensitive dysphoria, lethargy, and issues concentrating, among others.
Any tips and tricks to help someone come to terms with their ADHD being a major issue in their organization, thought processes, cleanliness and self care, and cause of relationship dissatisfaction?
Hoping to at least get her the help she needs, and preferably rekindle the spark for our marriage.