Hello everyone,
My daughter is 7 years old, and has been diagnosed with ADHD. However, there are things that cannot be explained by this diagnosis alone. For example: difficulty with social communication, oral aversions (picky eater, will not eat many things that “typical” kids like, such as: popcorn, cake, ice cream, any type of fruit juices, etc... Of course fruits and vegetables are on the list of things she won’t eat), and mild anxiety.
I was on the waiting list at the best autism clinic where I live, and when they finally called me, months later, I did not have the courage to move forward! The psychologist who tested my daughter for ADHD, and did include in the report that “ASD characteristics were observed” told me: “why do you want to put this heavy label on this child?” It’s such a heavy label that is unfortunately so misunderstood... My mother told me the same thing, that we live in a cruel world where labels can isolate and make life harder for a child. If she is autistic it is a very mild case.
I don’t know what to do. Should I have her tested and confirm or rule out autism for once and for all, or should I leave things as they are? She currently sees a speech therapist, and started a social skills group. Would a diagnosis change anything as far as treatment?
Thank you. Any guidance would be much appreciated.