I have a 5 yr old who had 6 bad weeks in school in Henrico county, VA. He was moved to a private school and they instantly complained of fidgeting, problems with impulsivity and a fiery temper when being called out or corrected. He got into a fight with a classmate and they asked him to leave until we have a conference. The problem is we have worked with a therapist to help them achieve appropriate behavior from my son. Both private and county believe his actions are by choice. He has moderate auditory processing issues but teacher felt as if he enjoyed something then he chose to do it and if he didnt enjoy something he withdrew. I'm confident that without proper support for his racing mind, fidgeting body and hair trigger that he will not be successful in these schools. Are there any schools in or near Richmond, Va or Henrico that have open doors for such a child. He can easily fit under the ADHD category, but again we were holding off from testing.