My name's David and up until about 6 weeks ago I thought of my life as being quite ordinary. I was pretty happy and everything seemed to be going well.
My wife and I got married nearly 3 years ago and she is my world.
I'm only 30, as is my wife but we are very fortuitous manageing to buy ourselves a beautiful house back in March and a family was definitely on the cards.
We had already been trying for little ones but early in the relationship we had 2 miscarriages so it was sometimes hard to talk about. Never the less my wife still kept a list of baby names that she continued to add to.
6 weeks ago my wife changed completely. She seemed to stop loving me over night. Her personality also changed, she was very much the clean freak, now she doesn't care, she will not do anything around the house or come shopping with me. She also started going out all of the time, getting drunk, vanishing until the next day. I'm all but sure she has now been unfaithful.
3 weeks ago I went to the doctors with her and they diagnosed her with acute depression. They gave her some antidepressants and signed her off work for 2 weeks (she hates her job). We went back last week and she was signed off for another month.
I love her, but I'm now struggling to cope. I don't want to pressurise her to stay with me but I can't keep trying if she continues to see other men.
She said that she doesn't want to sell the house and she knows her head is a mess. She said she wants to try.
My life is terrible right now and I don't know what to do, I'm so depressed. I'm still going work and I'm trying to lead a normalish life but it feels like my heart weighs a ton.
I just don't know if we can get back to the way we once were