I have suffered with depression for most of my adult life. I brought my 3children up bymyself and coped. I had no family to help me as my parents died when I was young.. My teenage daughter is 17 and due her baby next month and I recently got engaged to a wonderful man who wants to spend his life with me.am I being selfish in wanting to enjoy my life and be happy? My kids seem to think that I should be at their beck and call and not be happy.. Or do I give up my fiance and be miserable. I know if I stay il end up in a mental ward .