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Hi everyone, am new here...my first post

have you ever felt like your life moves in cycles??

personally i feel like am doing so.

after school 2015,i got a good job, a boyfriend, saved some money, good relations with others and family. 2016, everything was opposite as in bad. 2017 again came up with a good business plan that yielded good profits, boyfriend etc... 2018 everything ended as in business went in debts, boyfriend died, am no longer in good relations with friends and family to the extent of them distancing from me, worst part was my poor health to the extent of surgery this year yet am one of the people with the best immunity in my family.

I feel depressed as to why this happens. am excited for 2019 but am worried for 2020 as in what am i missing. lately i feel like i have given up on life, sometimes i cry or drink myself to sleep.

I dont know what is missing in my puzzle

Thanks

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Hi there!

It's brave of you to share your story.

We're all here to help one another, even if it's just to 'lend an ear' (so to speak).

Life can throw up big challenges at times but one thing I've learned is that there are some excellent, caring people in this world who are willing to listen and offer advice and suggestions.

Have you considered joining a club or organisation?

It would be a good way to meet some new people.

Best of luck. :-)

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chanaz in reply to AussieMale

Thanks

Happy New Year

I am looking forward to learning from this community and sharing with others

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chanaz in reply to chanaz

Where i come from, i have not heard about any clubs or organisations about such issues.

when i share with friends, they advise me to stay strong and pray about the situation however like any human, we have breaking points.

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