Endometriosis and miscarriages

[caslavia]

Hi, I have endometriosis for 3years but doctor finally confirm it last year. After 3 doctors said “it’s normal for some woman to feel more painful” perhaps language barrier since I don’t speak japanese fluently. Anyway I finally met someone who has endometriosis in japan and she recommend me her doctor. He explained everything very clear. And told me to do fertility treatment to overcome the endometriosis. I always wanted a child, but it takes me a year to finally get pregnant. but i lost it after 11 weeks. It was sad but i overcome my lost. However after i have miscarriage surgery i felt a strong pain. Hospital gives me pain killer but no effect. 2nd day it got worst but doctor finally give me stronger pain killer. A week after surgery i felt a stronger pain in my rectum area for 3.5 hours I can’t sit or lying in bed. I crawled and cried because of the pain. I went to doctor next day, she told me nothing is wrong from surgery and if the pain in rectum area you need to go to another specialist because it’s not related to obgn. Although i felt disappointed, doctor give me stronger pain killers for me to cope.

Now i felt very tired from all the pain. I wished for a good sleep without the pain. I’m tired to go hospitals all the time and drink pain killers that can only increase my resistance and the pain.

I asked my doctor for a surgery to remove my endo but he told me that my endometriosis is located in uterus walls and if i do surgery the wall becomes weak and if i got pregnant it won’t be strong enough to hold the baby. I’m not sure what kind of options out there.

Is there any surgery that can done to remove this for good and also for me to still able to have a baby. I’m in my late 30’s. Appreciate the help.

[Dna4christ]

Hello there. I'm sorry for your loss and pain that you are going through. I, too have been diagnosed with endometriosis 10 years ago. My doctor actually took an ovary from me as it was crushed by the endo cyst but also cleaned- scraped some endometriosis from the uterus. I think it does interfere with pregnancy and staying pregnant. I miscarried 2x. Although, my endometriosis isnt painful at all, I have heard many women go through laparoscopic surgery to clean or scrape the endometriosis to help with the pain and pregnancy. Also, many have kids after treatments. Take care!