Pain with sex

[77Horse]

I have been having really bad pain with sex . No bleeding just pain .

Is there anything I can do to help the pain ? Is it normal to have pain with sex?

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Nope unless it’s a new person with a new shape to get used to.

See if you have fibroids I’m not sure if your a male or female. Men have to check their prostates. Or either one of you might have an std or be dehydrated maybe it’s menopause or hormonal. Your veins could be constricted due to cholesterol I don’t know how old you are.

It’s not normal maybe if your aging like I was your doctor is supposed to recommend reading material to scare the shit out of you. About your vagina shrinking and uterus getting thinner and to use lots of natural lubricant with a sweet potatoe or yam base I guess you could you tube a recipe and if your a man or a woman use a home made lubrication. All the other stuff has chemicals in it best to make your own.

Sex isn’t really super important unless you like it. But intimacy is talking cuddling doing activities taking photos being loved trying a couples massage: going on hiking trips reading books or making a book together. But if you have to do it I mean I had a friend who couldn’t do penetration we were like 16 together and she showed me she wore panty hose and used her hand with a glove with Vaseline and toothpaste she then advanced to peppermint oil and some homemade lube. She did all the sounds all the moves but never wanted to have a baby.

She was an escort molested and hurt a lot like I was BUT she now lives in a castle in Scotland. No baby’s and she can hire a guy if she wants to.

[wobblybee Administrator Pioneer]

🤔 A GP once devised me to have a full bladder beforehand. I’d be wary of introducing ‘homemade remedies’ to such a sensitive area, it could cause even more unwanted side effects.

[77Horse in reply to wobblybee]

I would only use products that have been advised by health professionals . I wouldn't personally use any homemade remedies without being advised by a health professional . Thank you for message

[melissamstanford42]

If it’s ridiculously painful then no. I had a similar problem that turned out to be a std. it frightened me and made me more careful in the future. Seeing as it was the other person’s fault and I didn’t have the problem before that sexual encounter. And I wasn’t seeing him by the time I went to the doctors and got it treated.

[77Horse in reply to melissamstanford42]

Thank you . I have been checked for std that all come back clear but thank you anyway.