Hello women! I’m new here. Honestly I’m feeling down every day since I lost my pregnancy (three months ago). I had a hard time while I was pregnant, my ex partner didn’t want our baby and he refused me. I was crying every day. In the 3rd pregnancy exam, doctors told me my baby couldn’t live because she has some genetic problems. It was the worst day in my life. I wanted to die. My ex partner told me good luck and goodbye. I had to decide to abort a few days later. I won’t forget the pain that I had in the abortion. I’ll never forget how my ex partner left me while I was feeling depressed. It’s around three months that I lost my baby and I can’t overcome it. I’ve sent a lot of messages to my ex but he never responded again. My family is not exactly like caring family. Nobody know as I feel and I live now. Since my ex partner left me I’ve tried to get a job but it’s so hard and I don’t feel like doing things. I’m 27 and I’m desesperated. If somebody has been in a similar situation I’d like to know her. I don’t know how to continue. Thanks for reading. Greetings
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I’m so very sorry this has happened, it is devastating. I have a very close relative, pregnant, whose baby has also inherited a genetic condition which is causing concern. Have you spoken to your GP, has any counselling been offered.
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby, but I think you dodged a bullet when it comes to your ex. I know you love him, but you have got to move on...the sooner the better. You're dealing with a double loss, actually...a betrayal and abandonment and the loss of your child. You're 27 and you will rise above this...just give yourself time...be easy on yourself....
Thanks you so much, it’s true I need to overcome a double loss, I had a lot of dreams but now I feel empty.
I feel very sad that this has happened to you. I'm sure almost everyone has been left by a partner, but not in such a traumatic way. I understand that you must feel pretty lonely at the moment. I know that it's not much consolation to tell you that things will get better I guess time, but in my experience time does heal. I will be thinking of you. Take care of yourself.