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I just wanted to let you know my Mom passed away and her funeral was today.........it was not unexpected and she had a good life and was 90 years old.

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Susan1953

Theresa, I am so sorry that your mother has passed away. My mom is 100 and doing great. I do worry sometimes that she may outlive me.

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Thanks Susan........wow 100💕

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Red71

I’m sorry. No matter their age, you will always miss them. Hugs.

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Thanks!

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Totheriver in reply to Red71

Thanks Vicki!

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stardust1965

I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose a parent no matter their age. No doubt you will have many, many happy memories to treasure. Take care. Vicki

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Hi Theresa,

I’m so sorry to hear about your mum. It must have been such a comfort being able to spend time with her towards the end.

Take care,

Sophie 💐

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Thanks Sophie!

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MyMiracle13

I’m so sorry for your loss. May your mom rest in eternal peace🙏

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Casual

I’m so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort with your loved ones at this time.

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Totheriver in reply to Casual

Thanks!

Sorry for your loss, lovely to read that she had a good life. Peace to your mom x

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TwithBC

90 years -- what a blessing. My mom passed away this later spring -- so I also say, Im sorry for your loss. Again, what a gift to have had your mom for 90 years.

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Totheriver in reply to TwithBC

Thanks and sorry for the loss of your Mom!

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TNVol

Not sure we're ever ready to lose our mother. Peace and sympathy to you.

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Bestbird

So very sorry to hear of your mother's passing, and hope that many lovely memories will help to bring you comfort.

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Teddielottie

Sending my condolences . Cherish every memory of your dear Mom . 🌹

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Thanks!

May her memory be a blessing

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SusieIM

I am very sorry to hear about your loss Theresa. I lost my dad Jan. 17, he was also 90. It is hard to lose a parent, no matter what age. Take care.

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Totheriver in reply to SusieIM

Thanks........it is hard to lose parents. I lost my dad 20 years ago💕

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USIrishcolleen

Totheriver,

I am very sorry to hear this. Find comfort in all of your memories of her.

Colleen

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Mary115

Totheriver Thank you for letting us know that your mother's death was expected and that she had a good life. I surmise that knowing those things does not take away all grief, but that can mitigate the grief with a certain peace... the kind of peace you bring to us here..

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Totheriver in reply to Mary115

Thanks Mary......yes we will miss her. I so appreciate all of you ladies here💕

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Jpl5036608

So sorry. Hard at any age. May her memory be for a blessing,

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AnnaP668

Peace to you.

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Sunnydrinking

So sorry for your loss of your mum.

My mum passed earlier this year, aged 91. I treasure my memories of her, she was such a good mum.

Jo xx

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Totheriver in reply to Sunnydrinking

Thanks.......sorry with the loss of your mom too....my mom was a great mom too and I will miss her💕

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Valisa

🤗So sorry for your loss, may you find comfort and peace in many fond memories❤️

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Rhwright12

Many prayers and happy thoughts celebrating 90 years! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

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8576

Just seeing this now. Sorry to hear about your Mom Hope you have family close by for comfort. Take care.

June S.

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Totheriver in reply to 8576

Thanks.......we had a beautiful celebration of life service on Saturday💕

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Beryl71

Thinking of you, be kind to yourself its a difficult time. When my mum died I felt I had lost the person who knew me best. X

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Totheriver in reply to Beryl71

Thanks.......so true.

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AvidBooklover

So sorry to hear this news. Treasure your memories and in the weeks to come may you hear some stories about your mom from family and friends that make you smile.

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Totheriver in reply to AvidBooklover

Thanks........we have heard lots of memories.

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Jaxon2007

I'm sorry for your loss. I was blessed to have my Mom until last February. She was 91. Prayers for you and your family.

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Totheriver in reply to Jaxon2007

Thanks........sorry for your loss too.

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Tolife_18

So sorry for your loss. May her memories be a blessing for you. 🙏

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Thatflowerlady

I am so sorry for your loss .

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mariootsi

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. 90...wow! Gives some solice when they lived a good, long life.

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Barb5

So sorry for your loss🙏

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Totheriver in reply to Barb5

Thanks Barb!

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SoulJourney

Theresa, Hugs to you!

It is difficult because 90 years is an amazing life. There are blessings in the treasured memories that are clouded by grief. Be kind to yourself and take the time you need to feel what you are feeling.

Through is the only way to healing and peace. In the end what remains is the joy of your mom's life and love.

I pray you have family and close friends to walk with you.

Tammie

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Totheriver in reply to SoulJourney

Thanks Tammie!

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SeattleMom

Theresa,So sorry for your loss. I still mourn the loss of my mom, who died a little over a year ago, at age 96. I am only grateful that she didn’t have to endure the COVID scare and all of the restrictions it would likely have created on her life.

You and I were both blessed to have had our moms for so long. Mine was unaware of my MBC at the end of her life. For that, I am grateful too.

God bless you! 💗💗🙏🏻🙏🏻

Linda

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Totheriver in reply to SeattleMom

Thanks. I am thankful my mom does not have to go through it a second time. My mom did not know about my MBC either.

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PLASEM

I am sorry my sincere condolences

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hdhonda

Losing ones Mother at any age is difficult. May your good memories carry you through the days ahead. Blessings, Hannah

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Thanks Hannah!

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Eliactida1955

So sorry for your loss. May she Rest In Peace but I know you will miss her. 🙏✝️

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jersey-jazz

Good bless her and may she Rest In Peace. You are such a good person to take good care of her. I am sorry for your loss. A woman from India, when hearing of the loss of my husband, replied immediately that a baby was just born, at that moment. I hope the though of a new baby being born at the moment your mother died, brings you a little peace.

XXX OOO

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JPutt

Thinking of you x

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Thanks!

So sorry for your loss 😢💔💐. Sending prayers of comfort to you 🙏❤️🙏

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