My husband and I both quit smoking 12 days ago and I'm now wondering if our marriage will make it. We have been fighting just about every day when we were loving towards each other before. My insecurities seem to be exploding and I cry all the time. We have both blurted out hurtful things and looking back, I'm thinking that it is due to us going cold turkey. I have all these emotions just coming out and really don't want to keep saying hurtful things that I really don't mean. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't want to smoke anymore and neither does he but I don't want the strain on our marriage either.