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My J left me this morning I am home alone now with my grief. Thank you for all your kind messages of support. Sue x

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Kevin_1

I'm so sorry to hear your news.

Hold him close in your heart.

Warmly

Kevin

xx

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Mikey12345

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Pls know you aren't alone. Many of us grieve with you.

Sincere hugs,

Liz

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dollydott

I am so sorry to hear about J and so very sad for you Sue.

Sending love and hugs

Lynda xx

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Heady

I am so sorry. May he rest in peace finally free from this evil disease.

Know that we are still all here for you, lots of us knowing exactly how you feel today and will, in the future. Use those hard learnt caring skills on yourself now. Grief is extremely tiring, plus the wear and tear of the past few years will have taken their toll. Take some time out, sleep, breath or just sit and slowly recover from the physical side of caring. Only then can the mental side start to repair.

Sending big hug and much love

Lots of love

Anne

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NannaB

My thoughts and prayers are with you Sue. I hope you will soon be joined by your family to give you support and a hug. J will never be far from your thoughts but I pray one day, in the not too distant future, you will find there is life after PSP. J is at peace and has moved on, I’m sure he would want you to do the same....in your way and in your time.

Sending you a virtual hug.

❤️ XxxX

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Escada29 in reply to NannaB

Thank you so much he was so brave am very proud of him x

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JantheNana in reply to Escada29

Yes,and you are brave also! Let your tears flow,as they will- sometimes at unexpected times. And remember there is a army of us here behind you!❤️

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Helen119

So sorry to hear that news, love and hugs to you xxxx

Sorry to hear. We are all here for you.

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rriddle

Deepest condolences on your sad loss.

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doglington

So sorry Sue.

It's hard and feels so bleak. I remember thinking I never really understood the real meaning of bereft before Chris died..

Take your time grieving in your own way and remember we are all here for you. I know how much I gained from the family here.

Big hug from Jean xxx

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Katiebow

So sorry to hear your sad news Sue, it's not a club any of us wanted to join but the only bearable thing is that he is no longer being ravaged by this horrendous disease. You have done everything to care for him over the last few years and it will have taken its toll, when all of organising for his Farewell and the financial side of things is sorted you will be need to rest and take time to grieve, I'm still very much in the early process after 10months. Many who have lost their loved one have very different experiences of grieving and you need to do it your way and not be bothered by what others think. I trust that you have family or friends helping you through this difficult time, my heart goes out to you.

Big warm hug

Kate xxx

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Yvonneandgeorge

Oh sue I am so sorry, my heart breaks for you, sending you lots of love and hugs, grieve in your own way, we are all here for you beautiful lady. Yvonne xxxx

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SewBears

💐 I’m so sorry for your loss 💐

Xoxo 💔

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Satt2015

Dear Sue

I’m so very very sorry

It’s been a long road

Hard times ahead, I know 😢

Sending loads of love x

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honjen43

Am so sorry for your loss, Sue. You will miss him. Try to find the happy memories to lift your spirit.

Katiebow has said all I would add!

We are all thinking of you and will be here if you need us.

Big hug!

Jen XXX

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HilsandR

I feel your pain, Sue, grief is still very raw for me but the good memories of my wonderful man are getting me through. J was very brave and so are you. So now you have to learn to live with another new normal, one day at a time is the only way. There is life after PSP and you will find your way in your own time. Wishing you strength for the coming days and weeks. HilsandR.x

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Pavaga

My heart is with you. Love, Patty

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Dadshelper

You have my condolences. Grieving is normal, try thinking of all the good times you had together.

Ron

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Sam_S

I am very sorry for your loss.

May He Rest In Peace!

Sam

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Inparadise

So very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Kerry

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Bhakthan

Heartfelt condolences, Escada29!

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acorneater

I can't express any better than all the well wishers that have left messages.May you get your life back and never lack in love and support from those around you.Acorneater.

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Hiking13

Dear Sue

I am thinking of you and sending you love and hugs. It is so hard and you will feel so many mixed emotions as you grieve but as has already been said take your time and we are all here for you. Be kind to yourself and take time for yourself as it will take a long time to recover from the sheer exhaustion. But most importantly know that he is no longer suffering and take comfort in remembering all the happy times you had before PSP

Sending you more love and hugs

Love Sarahxxx

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Tunupup

I feel your grief xx

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Tippyleaf

Dear SueSo sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself now these will be exhausting days and so much to do

Love and hugs Tippy xxxx

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demlac

I so sorry for your loss and your grief.

As long as he is in your heart, he will always be with you in some way

Much love x

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Melhukin

Thinking of you

Mel x

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Dickenson2

I am so sorry to hear your sad news but he is now free if this evil disease. Just now look after yourself. Love Pauline x

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Spiralsparkle

Sending you much love. X

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Kaylewis

So sorry. X

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AJK2001

So sorry to hear, thinking of you.

Love & hugs

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Elaine1969

So sorry xx

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NanBabs

My sincere sympathy and thoughts are with you.

x

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Michigan341

I am so sorry for your loss. Big hug.

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nergeshb

Each one of us grieves with you. Each one of us feels for each other. We are all with you and send you tons of affection and support. Stay here with us.... we are here for you. Big bear hugs and love to you always

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georgeg25

Sincere condolences to you and your family. Lots of love and hugs to you. 💔💔💔

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Zibo

I am so sad to hear about your loss. Sending you a huge e-hug and condolences from London. Please reach out again if you need to!

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Dickwin

Dear Sue

I am so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathies. Keep your family and friends close as you grapple with this tremendous loss. Know that you did everything and more for your man and know that he is free from the horror of this insidious disease. Be good to yourself My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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patch33

So sorry for your loss. Sending you a big hug.

Dawn. xx

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mjtogether

Sue, I am so sorry for your loss. It's a long, hard fight for all and now he has peace. I hope only good memories of times with him will be your thoughts in the days to come and will help you to heal. Hugs

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Aprilfool20

Thinking of you. He’s in a better place . Lots of hugs to you. Jayne x

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Cuttercat

I just now read this. My heart goes out to you. I know the hardest days are ahead. I’ll keep you in prayer.

Bless you.

Cuttercat

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Beads0122

Sue,

My heart aches for you. No words we can say can change that grief, but know that these 40+ responses reflect the concern and care for you. You are not alone. This cruel disease takes people too quickly from our arms.

Prayers of strength and comfort covering you,

Bobby

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racinlady

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Treasure your memories.

Pat

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Skye04

So sorry....I lost my husband Feb. 28 not to PSP but a massive stroke...it's a whole new way of living...Hope you have some support Sue...sending you a big hug !!

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Escada29 in reply to Skye04

I am sorry to hear that. Yes its soooo very tough x

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144jim

Dear sue I am so sorry. Its hard to find the right words if there are any but I hope you know you are not alone we are all here for you. I do pray your heart heals and you can find comfort and happiness again. You will always have those precious memories of your time together. Xxx

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Marilyn_cbd12

Such a sad time for you...I am sorry. I hope you can let go of the pain and live in the memories.

Marilyn

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Megabrew88

So sorry for your loss.

I hope you’ll take comfort in the fact that he is free at last.

May he rest in peace!

Mc

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raincitygirl

Dear Sue,

I'm so very sorry you have lost your beloved. You were at his side through all of his long difficult journey, loving him and giving your very best.

Bless you now: his journey is finished, but yours isn't. That will feel very strange for quite a while! Hang in there - many of us are at the same stage.

We're here if you need us.

❤️❤️❤️. Anne G.

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Dance1955

Sending hugs to you and love at this sad time know you are not alone my friend xx

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Escada29 in reply to Dance1955

Thank you lots of lovely messages thank you everyone it is tough x

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