The PSP seems to be taking my wife down strange paths . She hates me being on th e telephone to anyone and will always try to call me and interrupt the call - she doesn't like me talking to people and she doesn't like me going on line or the idea of the forum which is why I tend to come on after she has gone to bed or before she wakes up . It is a kind of paranoia . She is getting more possessive by the day and is constantly demanding I stay by her side and if I am in the kitchen or doing the washing or paying bills she calls out saying she needs to talk to me but when I get there she says she doesn't know what to say . If I am doing something she asks why I can't do it sitting next to her.Its getting very wearing and claustrophobic . If I go and wash up the lunch things she accuses me of wanting to get way from her. Even now it is 10.50 and she has been in bed since 9.45 I made the mistake of not going upstairs but sat in the kitchen to read the paper and type this and she has come out of her room and called out to see what I am doing.I have now gone up "to bed"and she has settled down so I can carry on . I don't know if it is some kind of insecurity but I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with. The Community Matron has suggested she goes for a half day at the hospice but she flatly refuses unless I go too and I know that if we do go and I am determined to get her there , that after a couple of visits she will still resist my leaving her there for a morning . If I try to confront her over any of this behaviour she bursts into tears and says she doesn't understand what is happening to her and then I am just putty . Does anyone have similar experiences ? And any advice on how to deal with it would be most welcome as I shall probably be not putty but potty before too long . Georgepa
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