Yesterday was the worst day I have ever had - nurses came in the morning to wash / change mum for the 1st time and all seemed ok but about and hour or so after they left mum started to act funny ( and not funny haha ) she was quite nasty to me and even though I kept telling her she couldn't get out of bed as it took 2 nurses and me in the morning she insisted on getting out for the commode , she fell once or twice I was screaming at her to hold onto the bed rail so I could get her back into bed, then I sat with her in the afternoon while she kept seeing things on the bed sheets the walls and again trying to get out of bed , the community nurse came at 2pm with it ot see her transfer but when I told them what was going on and me braeking down they checked her over and said they thought that it was another uti or the antibiotics mum has just finished hadn't worked - she is calling on Monday to see how we are and to see if we would like her to ask the hospice for respite as she thinks I need it.
It jus shows if you get the right person on your side things get moving as within a few days the community nurse arranged another bed for down stairs for yesterday and Today we had 2 ambulance crews to move her from upstairs to downstairs , there were tears as she knows she will not see her bedroom of 65 years again but I think she understands why this has to be . I finally seem to be getting support from outsiders and family I don't think there have been so many people in this house in 1 day as there has been today.