Why is it, practically every single post, somebody mentions fighting? I do it all the time. I fight the professionals, to try and get reasonable care for my husband. I fight the powers at be to get the help that they have all recognised that he needs. I fight his family to try and get some extremely tiny bit of support. I also fight S to get his medication, food, liquid, you know all the vital things in life, down him. Why? Am I wrong in thinking it's what everyone should be doing for my husband, including him? Or is it me that's wrong?
I just can't bear this lack of caring from all n sundry. I know S is one of the bad guys in the world, he set up his own business, with his own money, employed about 60 people in the good old days. Worked every hour God gave him, made sure his employees got their fair share. At one stage we were the lowest paid workers in our company, he even took out loans, to make sure everyone got paid. The tax man got his full share of the money. Yet we are still treated like s##t!
Sorry, feeling very sorry for myself. Having problems that his son could sort with total ease, will he........ .? I am made to feel like the ogre, because I won't empty some cupboards and dump the contents in the middle of floor, while they take weeks to sort out my boiler that is about to pack in. How do I look after a dying man, with no heating or hot water????
Please, please can someone tell me what I am doing wrong???
Lots of love