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I had TURP surgery in June, the doctor removed 1 1/2 times the size of a golf ball of my prostate he said. Which is a huge amount. I’m 60 years old and have used toys with electrostim etc. couple questions

1: Did the electrical stimulation cause the prostate to become this large or was I just predisposed to have my prostate become this enlarged?

2: am I able to go back to using my electro stim toys?

3: my wife tops me with a strap on, are we able to go back to doing this?

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1. Don't know if electrical current stimulates BPH. Interesting hypothesis.2. Did you ask your urologist?

3. I can't think of a reason not to. You don't have any stitches that could tear. It might loosen some scar tissue, causing bleeding for a while, though.

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SubM in reply to Tall_Allen

I didn’t ask him

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E-stim seems unlikely. The U Minn research program provided three sizes of rectal dilators to help men with scarring. Enjoy your play and listen to you body.

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SubM in reply to dadzone43

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate your helping us to getting back some of our life that we’ve been missing.

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