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As on my own is it bad to go back with Parents ?

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Have you been mixing much up until now? Would you be a threat to them ?

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Yes my friends we have been out . I need them to cope . As only just moved and living on my own . No they will be fine.

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So if they are happy for you to spend a month with them, why not!

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Yes that is what I think but is it bad to go back with them ? I will have two days away . As I would not see anyone otherwise not sure I could cope.

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Why do you think it would be bad? Will your job close down?

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Just feel bad going back if we will disagree as i have been on my own . No I am still working ...

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Well you will have to work hard to get on with them. Can you work from home?

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No as health and social care

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I think if they can offer you some support and no one is at risk, it would be nice to go back for the month. Discuss it with them and see what they think. 😊🌷

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If it was myself I would go back to them its better than being on your own during lockdown

I think you should be with your loved ones staying safe together 🌟

Leaving aside any health and safety issues from covid-19 Mia898, is it really such a good move? We move out from home in order to become independent and here's a chance to prove that you are. You may find you want things more your own way after having now lived away from home. There's no point in moving back into a situation which might become tense and unpleasant for any of you. As far as we know just now, lockdown is only set to last one month. Now's your chance to prove to your parents that you've cut the cord and are truly independent.

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Yes good move ... I am not there the full lock down ...

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Hi my Carer friends decided to bubble together last time to help each other cope with caring and isolation. It worked for them. So long as you can all accept each other’s space and knowing it’s temporary should help that, I’d go for it! ((hugs)) M x

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Hello Mia898

Remember "House rules", they who own house make the rules. I would not move back in with my parents for one month, but my parents are deceased. I do however seem to have number of grandchildren who can not seem to get launched on their own.

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We do not have house rules .

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No you should do whatever you feel is best for you and them.

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You could ask,maybe they have thought on it too,make out its their idea ;)

I'm on my own,but I'm not great company when unwell,but I'd still like another person handy but I don't and its lonely sometimes and I feel sad but don't want to burden people :( sit down and have a chat with them about this month,good luck :))

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If you get on well and you’re not going to put your parents at risk, then it shouldn’t be a problem if they’re happy for you to move back for the duration, but I have to admit that when I moved back home after a couple of years of independence, I found it incredibly difficult to cope with and quickly found myself a house share. It was lovely to be cared for like before... for about two days but it soon became too much and I just had to get out! If you have a good relationship with your family then I’m sure it’ll work out fine but if there’s likely to be tension then you might be better staying in your new home. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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