I have chronic pelvic pain (levator ani syndrome) and vulvodynia. Sex is VERY painful and, to be honest, I hate it. I have no sex drive and I never have. I am 32. My fiance, on the other hand, REALLY likes sex. I've tried to get rid of the pain with physical therapy, but no luck. I'm just looking for advice on what to do with the relationship issues this causes. For example, he thinks that we can't live together because then he will want sex every day and that will make me mad. And truthfully, it does make me mad that he wants to hurt me and make me bleed with sex every day. I'd appreciate advice/experiences.