I have been diagnosed with ic and pfd. Does anyone have pain and/or spasms simply upon arousal. My husband and I don't even have to be actively involved in sex but if become aroused I have severe pain and severe rectal spasams so I have cut off all activity including simoly kissing. I know TMI sorry for that but I would love to know if there are others with the same issues. I do at home instillations and am seeing a therapist, but nothing is helping. This is condition is affecting my marriage and my relationship with my daughters. I am unable to wotk and hsve had to apply for disability---talk about a blow to my ego. Thank you for listening.