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Alifit - RIP

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It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that this is to tell you all that Ali died on Friday 18th December 2020 as if this year hasn't been bad enough already.

Originally diagnosed in July 2016 with Stage 3c Ovarian Cancer she underwent limited de-bulking surgery and endured countless rounds of chemo, investigating all the available trials and seeking alternative opinions wherever available. Not so much as a way to cure herself but to help the science and advance the research to find a way to stop so many women having to live with the disease.

She left this world cross and angry that she couldn't do more.

She 'reluctantly' accepted the invitation to become a model for the fashion show of 2018 but once there she 'bossed the catwalk' in her inimitable fashion.

She will be greatly missed by family, friends and all who knew her.

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This is such sad news, she will be greatly missed on this forum. My sincerest condolences to her family and friends. x 😢

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Manchesterlady

Very sad news . Sincere condolences. May she rest in peace 🌹

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Sashay2020

This news saddens me greatly. What a lovely woman. Sincere condolences from Louisiana

Sashay

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Broader

So so sorry to hear this sad news, rest in peace lovely lady.X Christine

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Katiebairdie

Very sorry to see this news. Please add my condolences to the family and friends.

My condolences to her family and friends. Rest in peace Ali 🙏🏼🦋

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Newbie_2020

Sincere condolences to all the family. May she rest in peace.

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Caleda4

Very sad news. Rest in peace Ali. My sincere condolences to family and friends.

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Lyndy

Ali was such a fighter and many of us drew strength from her attitude and wise advice. I am very sad at this news and send heartfelt condolences to her family ❤️

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January-2016-UK

Such sad news, she will be sorely missed on this forum. Her posts were often filled with such great humour. I’m guessing you’re “the bloke” of whom we used to hear about from time to time. Sincere condolences to you and her family. May she rest in peace.

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Seasun36-uk

Thank you for letting us know.I couldn’t sleep last night & was thinking of Ali, wondering how she was. A group of 7 of us ladies met at The Swan at Whittington in Worcs, way back in 2018. We had a lovely meal & talked non-stop!

Sending condolences to all of you, especially at this time of year.

Linda xx

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Petrolhead in reply to Seasun36-uk

That was a great meet up. Even though non of knew each other we got on so well. Fay

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Litchick

Such very sad news. May she rest in eternal peace - and own that heavenly catwalk. Jan. x

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delia2

I’m so very sorry for your terrible loss and especially at this time of year. Thank you for letting us know

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Eriksendi

So very sorry to read this. She was an inspiration to many of us on this site x x

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lesleysage

As others have said, many of us are so very sad to read this. She will be greatly missed here too. x

So sorry to hear this. How lovely & selfless of her to try out treatments which could help others living with this horrendous disease.

Thoughts are with you & your family at this sad time xx

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Bettyxxx

So sorry to hear the news sending my heartfelt condolences xxx

So sorry to read this. What a terrible loss for you and your family, especially at this time of year. Ali sounds like she was a wonderful lady and obviously fought very hard for all of us. May she rest in peace. Love to you all

Angela xx

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Katmal-UK

Im sad to hear of Ali's passing. Another Teal Angel has gained her wings. Sincere condolences to Ali's family and friends. xx

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ShropshireJo

Dear Tom

So very sorry to hear your sad news. Ali had such a great spirit and was an inspiration to me and others here. I had the privilege of meeting her a couple of times including that wonderful chatty lunch Linda mentioned and we even exchanged emails about our new kitchens in 2019! She will be sorely missed and my heart goes out to you, her family and friends. Love Jo 🌹🌹🌹

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Sukiboo

🥲such sad news R.I.P brave lady

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ruthg55

My heartfelt condolences to all the family, sad news indeed. What a lovely picture you have posted of Ali.

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AlaNtO

Condolences and sympathy to the family. She gave life a good "shot".

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Mumsie13

So sorry to hear this sad news. Ali sounds like she was a wonderful and brave lady. My sincere condolences to her family and friends. Jackie

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SUE7777

I;m so sorry you have lost your lovely partner my deepest sympathy goes out to you. Sue

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Jomar96

I'm so sorry for your loss. Ali's spirit and strength gave courage and hope to forum members here. I hope you too will find strength and comfort in your memories of her.

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Irisisme

Ali was such an inspiration for me and I am so sad that she has lost her fight with OC. My condolences to all those close to her, she will be missed by many ❤️❤️

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Realistic

So sad, good bless her she sounds an extremely brave woman. Condolences to all her friends & Family xxx

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Barmycharm

So sorry to hear this. What a beautiful and brave lady. Heartfelt condolences to you and your familyClaire xx

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Cheryl4677

So sad to hear this news. She had such courage and kept herself and others informed as she battled with this disease. She will be greatly missed on this forum. 🦋 Condolences to you and her family.

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bluepeterella

Oh no. She was lovely to me, I remember her telling me to for goodness' sake go skiing last year when I had a wobble about it. I'm so sorry to hear this news x

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MarleyZ

Deepest sympathies to you and your family and friends on your loss.

Sincere condolences to you and everyone who knew her.Janet

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Neona

I am so sorry to read this. I have followed Ali’s posts and she has been a wonderful and valuable member of this forum. RIP dear lady.

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Nadie2018

So sorry to hear. My condolences to family and friends. Ever grateful for your words and fight 💔

My sincere condolences on the loss of Ali. May you find comfort and peace through the Lord. Blessings, Donna

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SASSY196

I'm so sorry to read this. Xxxxxxxxxxxx

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Petrolhead

HiI was also in the meet for lunch group at the Swan. (Passed by there on Friday and talked again about it to my partner)

Such a lovely group of ladies. I remember talking about skiing with Ali and I was envious that she managed to continue to ski while I had to stop for a while due to side effects of treatment. She made me resolve to myself to get fitter like her.

So pleased to have met her.

Fay

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Artgreen

I’m so sorry to hear this. My sincerest condolences to her family and friends.

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Andrea63

I’m so sorry to hear this very sad news. Thinking of you and Ali’s family xx

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candyapplegrey

All my sympathies. I respect the fact that she was cross and angry. Too many women are diagnosed too late. She sounds like a great fighter. Love Candy x

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Welshandproud

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news and send my condolences to Ali's friends and family. I will miss her posts on this site. She was a lovely lady taken far too soon.

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CallmeMum

Fly high beautiful lady ❤️❤️❤️

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Mrsmerlot

So sorry to hear this sad news, Ali made her mark and left us all the better for it. X

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Kempyhillbilly

My sincere condolences to you and her family. Xx

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Meridian14

So very sad to hear this. My sincere condolences. x

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Summergold2

Very sad news condolences to your family. Gone way too soon🦋 teal angel! Peace be with you

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Joanie12

Rip Ali, condolences to family and friends

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Maus123

I'm very sorry she had to leave this earth, especially given the fight and optimism that shone through every post of hers. My condolences to her family. xx. Maus

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CharlotteSo_UK

I am so dreadfully sorry to hear about Ali. I’ve followed her posts for the time I’ve been on this site and she always came across as such a wonderful woman. Thoughts and prayers are with you all

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SailorTom

To all you lovely people a huge great thank you. The day after I posted the news my inbox was flooded with kind messages and I too was flooded with tears!

The funeral is arranged for 2:00pm Wednesday 13th January 2021. I’ve been asked by a few people but the service will not be ‘streamed’. Please join us in spirit (any one of your choosing!)

As I say I was completely bowled over by the response received and can only thank you again for your kind words. If you’d like to remember Ali in a positive way then I would direct you to her fund raising page.

ovacome.org.uk/inmemoryof/a...

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