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So things have changed and there is nothing more that they can offer me. On Friday night I ended up in hospital with total bowel obstruction. On Tuesday they carried out surgery hoping to untangle the bowel. Unsuccessful as disease is too progressed. Am very calm. Asking you all to pray for me

Shabila

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TrishLey

Dearest Shabila.

I am so sorry to hear this news. I hope you are comfortable and not in pain. You have been here on this site for such a long time and have given many comfort. I hope we can now do this for you in some small way. My thoughts and prayers are with you xxx Trish

Dear Shabila

I am so sorry. Thinking of you x x

Will be sending prayers up for you dear Shabila. Miracles do happen love and healing hugs xx

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Whippit

Dear Shabila

Thank you for posting. I had missed you and wondered how you were getting on. The bowel obstruction must've been so painful and frightening, and now the news that no more treatment is available. I hope one day to face my destiny with something like your calm and resolve and I shall light a candle for you.

Let's hope 'no more treatment' can still mean your condition can be managed and that you get good care from the hospice and other supporters.

love xx Annie

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vipervictoria

I am so sorry to read this. You are in my thoughts & prayers. I hope your time is filled with love and peace. Vxxx

So sad for you, but what a brave a moving post. Bless you xxx

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carol-b

Dear Shabila,

As my mother always said, " I will storm the heavens with prayers". Hope you are comfortable.

God bless you,

Carol-b

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angelina

Dear Shabila

I am so sorry to hear your sad news and do hope you are comfortable

and free from pain.

Sending you lots of love and big hugs (((((((x)))))))

Love Angie xx

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daisies

Hello, sorry to read about that the surgery was not successful. Life is rough. I've been fortunate, so far anyway, that the bowel tumours were found early and so hoping that the current treatment will work.

My thoughts and prayers are going to you, and will think of you when I light a candle later.

Love, Daisies

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baxbird

Dear Shabila

You are being a guiding light in how you are dealing with your current situation, my thoughts and best wishes are with you

Dawn xx

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Izzystep

So sorry to read your post.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Remain calm and be free from pain.

Irene

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Seren18

My daughter Jaci had a very similar experience and was virtually pain free thanks to the medication. I shall certainly pray for you and wish you peace. Gillx

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babsclunn

My prayers are with you x

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Lily-Anne

So sorry to read this, it's so hard to know what to say when reading your post, you are so brave to post this, I will of course say a prayer for you.

LA xx

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Sunfleury-UK

Dear Shabila, adding my thoughts to all those that surround you Sxxx

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kaz14

Thinking of you and praying for you

Love Kaz x x

Thinking of you and hoping you are comfortable. xxxx

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BJ_UK

I'm so sorry to hear this, Shabila! Of course I will pray for you, and hope that they can at least keep you comfortable.

Love,

Barbara

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rjhs

Shabila, you have been an inspiration on this site for so long, and never more so than now. We are all hoping you are as comfortable and pain free as possible.

Rita

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kazc26

You are a brave and strong lady. My prayers are with you. Believe in your strength and it will be shown to you. I know you have given hope and comfort to others. Now is your time to receive. Lots of love and my thoughts stay with you.

Kaz

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Marianna

So sorry for this news Shabila. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I pray a small miracle will happen. But also that you are at peace and your family are with you. Xx

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HumbleD

Dear Shabila,

You have been in my thoughts and prayers for some time and I am very sorry to read that surgery was not as successful as it could have been. Contnue to stay strong as you recover from surgery and thank you for being such an inspiration to me personally this year as I struggled with further treatment myself.

All my love Wendy xx

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ladygooner-uk

Love and light

X

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citrine

My thoughts are with you Shabila. Thank you so much for all your wonderful contributions to this site. I hope you are comfortable and being well looked after.

Much love to you

Mary xxx

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Lizneild

We are praying

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Aurelie

Dear Shabila - wishing you peace and love and light. Your courage is an inspiration to us all.

Jill xxx

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Tricia12

We all know that our journeys on this earth are short. May your calmness stay with you. Positive thoughts winging their way from the south east of England.

Pat

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thesilent1

Shabilla, I am so sorry to hear this news. I know what bowel obstructions are like, blooming dreadful. I hope you are not in any pain at the moment and the medics are making you as comfortable as possible. You will be in my prayers. Ann xo

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jennybutler

So sorry you had to post this news, like the others I do hope you are comfortable. We will all come to this and it's hard, but so it has been hard fighting this cruel desease and I have decided after this I will no longer have chemotherapy it's a tough routine for in my case short remissions, my family understand, I hope that you are being well cared for and not in too much pain thinking of you at this hard time but miracles can happen. Xxxxx Jenny Xxxxxxx

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Hilsuk

Dear Shabila, so sad to hear your news , do hope you are as comfortable as you can be and surrounded by good people who care and support you well, so admire your courage and strength

with much love and a gentle hug

Hilary xx

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Fernanda

Dear Shabila, I'm very sorry about the news. Will pray for you, hoping you may be pain free and comfortable.

Love, Fernanda

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AnnieMae

Thinking of you and hoping you are pain free and comfortable brave lady.

Love

Annette xxx

Shablia what can I say. I just wish no more pain for you and just join in the kind regards from all of us on this site. I am sorry that the operation wasnt successful but hope your condition can be managed for as long as you are comfortable. Will remember you in my prayers

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charleee

Sorry to hear your news and you are certainly in my prayers! Xx

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cancer48

Sending my love xxxxAnn

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Eyman1

God bless you...

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Dyana

I was very sad to read this and hope that you have lots of support around you . Will be thinking of you , dy xxxx

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dee61

Can I add more prayers for you and your family and that they will also have the peace that you are experiencing

Dee xx

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Anne-2

I will light a candle for you at church today. I am so sorry to hear your news.

Love and prayers

Anne x

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Madz

Sorry I haven't seen this before now lovely lady, love and prayers for you always big hugs Amanda xxxxx

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wendydee

Dearest Shabila, I have been away and only just seen this post. I can't say how sorry I am to read your latest update. Like others, I will pray and send gentle wishes from comfort and lots of love. Are there plans for you to have some hospice care? I hope that you're not in pain and are being well looked after, maybe given some gentle massage or some treats, like your favourite music. You have always been one of the most up-beat and kind friends on this site, always generous and positive with your comments. You're being very brave. I will be lighting a candle and sending love and hugs to you.

Love Wendy xx

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