Hi new to site, I had surgery last July to remove two tumours, I had to have a total hysterectomy , this all happened so quickly it was all bit of a shock. After the surgery bit sore but didn't feel to bad. 5 weeks after my surgery we lost my mother in law suddenly, it was devastating for my husband and our son and myself. After the funeral the menopause symptoms really kicked in,, hot flushes and not sleeping, haven't had full nights sleep since surgery, and the mood swings, some days I don't even feel like getting out of bed but they are getting better. I used to suffer with migraines and these got worse so doctor put me on beta blockers which have helped ease them, doctor doesn't want me to take HRT. It's now nearly six months and some days I feel great then other days for no reason I have no get up and go and my tummy and bowel have started playing up, I go several days with nothing then tummy gets upset and bowel habits get bit loose ( sorry bit more info then you need), also my memory is terrible, is all this normal, I am 50 yrs old my tumours were borderline, oncology doctor said they we stage 2 and I am being monitored at moment. Thank you in advance