well I have to give my company full marks today. After Friday I was still feeling a little overwhelmed and sad but felt I could move forward on how to help one of my team.
Then my boss walked in said i got your email but why did you not tackle her behaviour/time keep and sullen moods.
how I did not cry at this point I do not know. A very steely me came out with, talk later not NOW.
I wrote an email to HR and said I am not barrelling over her with crap until I know the correct way to deal with it.
at home my HR director calls to say a. How are you what can I do to suppot you then b. You did everything right so lets work a plan out then c. I have told your boss to calm down be patient and let you do your job which is particularly tough right now.
Got to love the support I got as I am feeling knackered right now.