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Hi all we all have our problems i know but whats really hurt me this week is going to the funeral of a really good friend of ours son. He was only 46 and for whatever reason still lived with his mum and dad .he was meant to get married a few years ago but she left him and he never got over it. The post mortum ? Was inconclusive so we don.t know why .but a mother and father aren.t meant to bury their child

The saddness was overwhelming And has hit me hard .

Its one of the saddest funeral i have been to and at my age they seem to be thick and fast.

Sorry if its not appropriate here. But i thought i should share with my friends .love you all hugs xxkathyxx

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allanah

Thinking of you xxx

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keeta in reply to allanah

Bless you my love xx thank you xxkathyxx

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Shalf

Your son's friend wasn't that much younger than me Kathy so although I didn't know him, I feel the sadness. Too young, so sad. Death at any age is hard to come to terms with. People devote their lives to a person and in a second it can it can be taken away! It makes us think about life in a way we don't normally day to day! Feel for you all. Xx

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keeta in reply to Shalf

Thank you my love .i would rather suffer all my life than have to bury one of my kids .its really knocked me for 6.thank you my love xxkathyxx

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Shalf in reply to keeta

I understand Kathy. Xxx

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keeta in reply to Shalf

Thank u love .i knew you would xx

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Ruth12345

I really feel for you and I do understand. This is not the way it should be. Take care of yourself precious lady. X

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keeta

Thank you so much my love .it really helps to talk to my friends you are too kind xxkathyxx

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craigsif

I am sorry for their lose, and for your sadness.

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keeta in reply to craigsif

Thank you so much it means so much xx

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Caza in reply to keeta

Died too soon. Very sad.

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keeta in reply to Caza

Yes and so sad for his mum and dad xx

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nomoreheels

Bless you Kathy. It's so true, a parent should never have to bury their child. Hold yours close, it's only natural you should feel so upset. Such a sad time for you, thinking of you. x

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keeta in reply to nomoreheels

Thank you so much my love xx

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AnneField

Aw you poor love, things like this really let you know how precious life is don't they? And his poor parents, they must be absolutely devastated. Christmas is looming too and I know that this time of year just makes bereavement seem a million times worse. My old Dad died at Christmastime ten years ago and even now, certain songs on the radio just take me back to that week at Edge Lane. YNWA love xx

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keeta

Oh .i.m so sorry love .but you are so right this is such a sad loss for them and christmas wo.t ever be the same .thanks my love xx

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Uga35570

So sorry keeta awful for you and his family xx

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keeta in reply to Uga35570

Thank you lovely it really has knocked me for six xx

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helenlw7

It is so sad to go to the funeral of someone so young. I’m thinking of you.

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keeta in reply to helenlw7

Thank you xx

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sjhewitt42

Hi Kathy, how awful for them to have to bury their child. It certainly puts things into perspective doesn’t it. Big hugs to you my lovely. xxxx

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keeta in reply to sjhewitt42

Thank you so much lovely .you are kind .hugs darling xx

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