I’m so sad sorry to be complaining again.. my steroid anxiety is of then scale but to make things worse my lovely. sister who was only 59 sadly passed away on the 30th September at home nursed. By me and her 2. daughters and my daughter anyhow she had a beautiful send of we had gorgeous black horses with huge black feathers and. a carriage her tiny white coffin was so small she was tiny..
Sadly some low life in her road burgled her home stole all her stuff precious stuff to us.. we have proof 3 witness she lived in a bungalow and at the side of her home is sheltered all elderly and vulnerable all the balconies overlook her front these 3 ladies witnessed it but are terrified of this one family who ruin the whole complex for everyone else..
I could not believe my eyes I went to collect some stuff from my sister home and the people who are responsible for this theft live facing have her bird bath and wind chime in there garden. And took all her garden stones I wanted to throw. Every last stone through there windows ..I wanted to kill them and I’m not that way I knocked it was a good job no one answered. This steroid lark is making me worst .. What is wrong with people... do these people have no morals or respect.... they’ve robbed my sister we don’t even have her ashes yet to bury. Robbing of the dead how low ...
I’m heart broken the police are informed but the process is slow and there not bothered with petty crime I want to kill them myself.. my poor husband is at his witts end between this and me ..
Sorry I’m so depressing lately and I know you lot have all your own things going on.. keep smiling ladies .. xxx
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Don’t be sorry. My heart goes out to you and your lovely family Vonnie10. I am so sorry for the loss of your sister.. Please keep away from those ugly ugly people and keep safe.
You have every right to be bl"""y angry darling they are just lowlife and your better than them darling. Sorry about your loss of your sister darling..xxxxx
This has really 🤬me off . I’m so sorry for you and your family my heart goes out to you all.
Low life scum ... I would want to tackle them but you put yourself in danger.
It reminds me of a neighbor years ago . Again a family terrorised the street on a regular bases. An old boy was moving out into a home . On his last day he waited till they were out and then posted all the dog 💩 through the letter box Their dog left deposited on our street ( straight off the the trowel... 😂😂😂
This made smile they deserved it and more I dont get people like.these..my street is lovely.. I half think this goes with the terrorty of coucil properties but you would think a street a few bungalows and sheltered condition either end of her little street.. would not have this carrying on... all you see is lovely carers pulling up in there cars to help these vulnerable people.. and yet we still have one rotten apple spoiling it for them. And I was informed on this phone call this morning this happened to someone else property when they passed away but again no.cctv shocking... bare in mind 3 of the ladies watched them steal.this stuff but we have no CCTV I've enquired ...police are involved I just hope these ladies statements re enough for them to be arrested. God bless these 3 ladies there frightened I would not want to put them through anything to cause them ny stress...but the dog poo is funny..
Hi Vonnie. I'm so sorry to hear about you're sister, that's so sad. I know how you feel because I lost my lovely sister suddenly almost two years ago. The people who have done this are pure scum, the fact that they are so brazen as to display it in their garden proves that. I really hope the police don't let this go as they need to be punished, it's so despicable. Thinking of you all. xx
How dreadfully devastating on both counts. How very sad to loose your sister, my sincere condolences. The people who stole her possessions are pathetic in all senses of the word. I can fully understand your deep anger and frustration. The only consolation is that you don't live in their disgusting, sad world. Their brazen behaviour reflects the murkiness of their morals - living in their minds must be one of the worst places to be. Keep to your own 'lovely' mind and the love that it has known. They just aren't worth a miniscule part of you. xx
How awful for you having to deal with losing your sister and then the shocking theft of her possessions that are important to you. Sadly there are some really immoral people in this world and I hope they will be punished for their actions. I do hope the Police take this seriously and deal appropriately and quickly with these thieves.
You have my sincere condolences on the loss of your sister. It's a truly horrible time for you and your family. As for those immoral scum stealing her possessions I hope the police take action against them and it's understandable that you'd want to put their windows through. Huge virtual hugs for you all
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister and then to add to the pain you are already feeling someone steals things from her home. How utterly low can someone go but sadly to say for some they do not consider this as a problem, the bar is set very low on their moral scale and as a way of life to them it's the 'norm.' Again to even have the brass neck to put some of the things they took just adds more insult and upset to the injury. I had an experience in my first job ever working with vulnerable children, whereby a mother stole my sunglasses whilst dropping off her child at the centre and then came to collect the child later in the day wearing my glasses with a smug grin on her face. Due to the 'nature' and 'history' of this woman no one would challenge her and she went on a few months later to nick the CD player there too!! Sadly it leaves you and the family hurting more and as you say the steroids you are on are adding to your anxiety which must be so hard for you.Take care and I hope that the police will do something and that you can cherish your sister's life and memories without this horrible distress that you have had due to these people. x
Oh she knew fully well what she was doing. I hope that justice is served with your situation and a little Karma thrown in to those who have stolen from your dear sister's home. Take care Vonnie x
Huge hugs, Vonnie 💗 and there is no apology needed. This is an awful time for you and made even worse with your very sad loss 😢 and the horrible scum who have stolen your sister’s belongings. Karma, I say. I understand your steroid anxiety as had some of that myself 2015/16 and it makes you feel so much worse. It was just after a time of bereavement too when I had to take Prednisilone for ten months. I hope you and your hubby can get through this together. I made a mistake of not talking to my husband much and trying to keep it all inside. He told me later that he had felt excluded and at a loss what to do to help at times. Wish I hadn’t have done that. Hope you have other family too you can be in touch with for mutual support, 💗xx
You could make a complaint to your neighbourhood warden from the local council. Furthermore if you or these people are tenants of housing association or council properties you can email their housing officer to complain about this behaviour. Local newspapers and online sites like Nextdoor.com can be helpful too. It’s astonishing how people behave. My condolences for the loss of your sister.
Hi ive made a official complaint... I’ve never had to complain about anythink before but this is a must. want the full rathe of the law on these low life people... if there prosecuted I will be going the local news paper and plastering there story all over it how they stole from my dead sister ...oh the housing officer I’ve already spoke just 2 days ago .. she is furious and knows what low life’s these family’s are... there is ten Bungalows in this set up five bungalows either side and sheltered flats either end of the street...the flats overlook the whole street so everything is noticed. These 2 groups are letting the whole thing down....one son looks after his mother I feel for her she is disabled but she is mad sit in the front drinking with them.. and her son girl literally goes on her mobility scooter to the shops....🙄 carry on is unreal... anyhow one of the old lady’s reported it to crime stoppers as the crime was happening .. unfortunately the police didn’t attend and we had a meeting with the police just yesterday,, he is gathering all the statements and evidence and cctv fingers crossed. and then it’s goes to a independent person who says yes or no if we have enough evidence to prosecute .. I’m betting there known to the local police..one of the families have already had a Warning so the housing officer told me she is sadly genuinely gutted for us but so pleased that if the. 2 families are prosecuted she can get them out ...all my sister stuff is at a different number in her road the lady who reported it to crime stoppers witnessed what property it went in so it’s was 2. Families one facing and one 3 doors down lovely lady’s in the sheltered 3 of them all witnessed it.. and by the way they took this very heavy stone love bench my sis had this bench for 25 years it’s so heavy it would need 2 men to carry it and it’s in 3 sections...she gave this to me as keep sake...amongst other things ... I nursed my poor sister heart failure TIL the end at home ... but one of the culprits goes around in wheel chair but managed with this other low life to carry this very heavy concrete bench ... these people are con merchants and thief’s... but we need all our ducks in a row before the police can prosecute them... thank god my neighbours are all lovely... sad to say you kind of never know what your getting in council or rented property’s it’s so sad for the rest Decent people....these tenants they physically have to get cabs so they don’t walk have to walk passed there bungalows one as two huge dogs.
Thankyou everyone for your kind words. Xxx
My steroid anxiety is starting to settle stopped having my morning caffeine coffee...noticed that’s helped... thought I was going mental... gp just does not get it... thankfully we have each other on here some go through similar things I love this site it’s great for support...and I’ve started toczlizmab today... fingers crossed 🤞
Oh Vonnie. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sister, that's enough to cope with, but then to have these awful people thieve from her home, things that I dare say mean nothing to them but everything to you, there are no words I can comfortably call them here. It's just too upsetting. I was going to suggest what Jacorandax said, to get in touch with the local council Neighbourhood Warden, this kind of problem is what they deal with regularly so should be able to help.
Be assured you're being held in our thoughts at this difficult time. x
Just read your reply to Jacorandax... they defy belief these people. I really do hope you succeed in getting these people prosecuted & as much as possible returned to it's rightful owner, yourself, I truly do. They have no morals.
My daughter and niece are cwazy they got ladder bare in mind this wall.is 10 foot high the house were all my sis stuff is 3 doors down from her . Bungalow . the road behind the bungalows is a main road my daughter put her hoodie on and sunglasses on while my niece held the ladder she took all photo .. for evidence ...this robbing dog garden looks lovely with all my sister garden stuff in.. I did find it funny the thought of them 2 and ladders bet my sis would be laughing . Made me laugh 🤣🤣🤣
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It's with sad news about Jim. 
Feeling sad and worried 
We are strangers in eachothers world, but so close in so many other ways
Just feeling so very low
Sometimes medics are so bl%#dy blasé!
