GGGRRRR I Hate men (at the moment)

Had a really big bust up with husband last night. Could sooo easily have gone out and purchased some cigs. But----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I didn't even contemplate it, not even for one second and boy do I feel good.

Husband is still on holiday so is at home all day while I am at work.

Did think to myself that just maybe he would have started cooking the dinner for me rather than me getting home and promptly have to get dinner cooked. No such luck so I had a go at him, said how would he feel if he had been at work all day while I was at home and hadn't done anything.

He got hump and really had a go at me.

Still very strained atmosphere but I really don't care.

Onward and upwards I go

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  • Urgh, that's REALLY not helpful and I feel your pain. I'm on the brink of leaving mine.

  • I will get my revenge

    When I have my operation and get home after, he will have to do it all

    In the past after I have any operations I would force myself to do it even if it was just starting the dinner but not this time.

  • Women!

    Moan, moan, moan...

    [Turns, and runs away very quickly :D]

    Well done for not cracking, of course!

  • Congratulations, you have passed the "I'm going to be an a-hole because I can!" test with flying colours. There will be plenty more of these and they hit you from different directions too - the idiot boss and rude salesperson, the impatient sod in the queue! The brilliant bit is, now you know they will still be an a-hole regardless on if you smoke or not so you don't immediately think of a cig everytime someone winds you up pic4ever.com/images/47b20s0...

  • Women!

    Moan, moan, moan...

    [Turns, and runs away very quickly :D]

    Well done for not cracking, of course!

    Careful Steve, we're all getting our puff back being off the cigs - so you'd better be running fast ;)

  • Careful Steve, we're all getting our puff back being off the cigs - so you'd better be running fast ;)

    True. I can't even run a bath without collapsing.

  • Well done - I think that is one of the hardest triggers so you have done brilliantly!!

    Sarah

  • Urgh, that's REALLY not helpful and I feel your pain. I'm on the brink of leaving mine.

    Oh Scarlett I'm sorry to hear that! I hope things work out for you

    Sending you a big virtual hug

    Sarah x

  • Bless you, some days you can really do without it! Well done for not caving in hon, there's many a quitter who would happily take advantage of that type of situation and use it as a "valid excuse" for going back to the fags - you've shown that you really mean to fight your way free and that is MASSIVE!!!:D:D:D

    Hope it all blows over soon petal and seriously well done for sticking with it :cool:

    ^^^ agreed

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