Having a weak moment! Help!

I don't know if it's the thought of going home to selfish arrogant boyfriend that's doing it but I really feel like just going down the pub and drinking about 5 pints (although in reality I could probably only stomach one) and smoking 20 cigarettes (reckon I'd be sick after the third one!).

Maybe I'll just get some chocolate instead though.

I hate arguing with my boyfriend, especially when it's all his fault and he can't admit to it! He doesn't even understand why I'm upset!

Drowning my sorrows instead of going home does seem like an appealing option. Knowing me I'd probably start boring some poor random person with all my woes though!

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  • :eek: Oh noooooo ! chin up babes its never as bad as it seems, Men are from Mars they are wired up all wrong. A fiendish alien must have concocted their gray matter. Just remember that they cant help it poor creatures, I gos a long way when they start acting manish. stay strong mate xxx

  • Are they all like this really? I can't remember a time in the five and a bit years that I've known him that he has EVER admitted he was wrong. Arguments only get resolved when I agree to forget about them because I find them too mentally exhausting to carry on with. I always back down basically. Sorry if I'm moaning but if he could HEAR himself sometimes...

  • I know . i give him the silent tretment. I know he hates that big time. If it gos on too long i usualy get so angry i start smashing things and have been known to attack him if the frustration is too much, im not proud of that, but hes the only mam on this earth that can push all the buttons to send me into orbit like that. as i said theres no compromise in those little boys, and you cant send them to their room. they are simply wired up all wrong. dont let him grind you down girl. we are here xxx :(

  • Hey you two!! All men are not like that some of us are far too dumb and lazy to even be bothered to argue!!!!!

    Seriously though don't let a stupid argument ruin what you have achieved so far, Get yourself to the pub for a beer but you definatly don't need to smoke.

    Hope it all works out

    Daz

  • Hey you two!! All men are not like that some of us are far too dumb and lazy to even be bothered to argue!!!!!

    Seriously though don't let a stupid argument ruin what you have achieved so far, Get yourself to the pub for a beer but you definatly don't need to smoke.

    Hope it all works out

    Daz

    Ahhhh the voice of reason........ yikes and its a bloke !!!!!! LOL ;)

  • Are they all like this really? I can't remember a time in the five and a bit years that I've known him that he has EVER admitted he was wrong. Arguments only get resolved when I agree to forget about them because I find them too mentally exhausting to carry on with. I always back down basically. Sorry if I'm moaning but if he could HEAR himself sometimes...

    Oh yes. Mine has refused point blank to go outside for a cig when he comes home at the weekend and doesn't think I'll give up but I'm going to show him I can with or without his help. They can be sooo pig-headed when they want. I have noticed that it is worse when there's a full moon and no I am not mad!! Just look when there is a full moon and see what happens!!:D Don't give up hope, I'm not and this forum is really helping me.

  • Smoking definately won't help you'll just wake up feeling worse tomorrow and probably blame bf for your lapse - men just don't think like us at all definately from another planet wonder how we survive living together at all sometimes - (hope my husband isn't reading this he'll give me grief) but they do have their good points lots of good points.

    RoseB

  • I know . i give him the silent tretment. I know he hates that big time. If it gos on too long i usualy get so angry i start smashing things and have been known to attack him if the frustration is too much, im not proud of that, but hes the only mam on this earth that can push all the buttons to send me into orbit like that. as i said theres no compromise in those little boys, and you cant send them to their room. they are simply wired up all wrong. dont let him grind you down girl. we are here xxx :(

    Dossydo, I can totally relate to that. I've never thrown anything directly at him but definitely thrown things around the place. I remember one time I kicked the kitchen cupboard and had to spend ages afterwards cleaning off the rubber mark that my shoe had left there. Like you I'm not proud but my god he knows how to turn me into a mad woman! He's just so damn arrogant!!!

  • Oh yes. Mine has refused point blank to go outside for a cig when he comes home at the weekend and doesn't think I'll give up but I'm going to show him I can with or without his help. They can be sooo pig-headed when they want. I have noticed that it is worse when there's a full moon and no I am not mad!! Just look when there is a full moon and see what happens!!:D Don't give up hope, I'm not and this forum is really helping me.

    My boyfriend doesn't think I'm going to give up either. It was partially his fault that I caved at the weekend, telling me to go and have a cigarette cause he couldn't stand me fidgeting and didn't want to put up with me. Talk about a lack of support!

  • Sorry if I'm moaning but if he could HEAR himself sometimes...

    Tape him then!! Might make him think twice if he has to listen to himself carping on!!

    Girls have pmt, but so do men.........permanent morngy tw**, I genuinely believe they suffer a personality disorder brought on by a full moon too :p

  • Dossydo, I can totally relate to that. I've never thrown anything directly at him but definitely thrown things around the place. I remember one time I kicked the kitchen cupboard and had to spend ages afterwards cleaning off the rubber mark that my shoe had left there. Like you I'm not proud but my god he knows how to turn me into a mad woman! He's just so damn arrogant!!!

    Yea then they have the aoudasity to call us loony eh ? when its clear they are the Martians.......... one was spotted on Mars the other day look... lol....:D

  • Brilliant! :D

    By the way I have just bought myself a bar of chocolate and a large tea so the ciggie cravings can piss off for now!

  • Thats a girl and have a stiff vodka tonight, its my cure all. get your glad rags on and we will hit boudees party yea!!!!!! :D

  • Thats a girl and have a stiff vodka tonight, its my cure all. get your glad rags on and we will hit boudees party yea!!!!!! :D

    I wish!!! Sounds great!!! :D

    Anyway I'm off home in a minute. I don't know if I'll be logging in from home over the weekend but wish me luck with the arrogant man-child I have living at home!

  • I wish!!! Sounds great!!! :D

    Anyway I'm off home in a minute. I don't know if I'll be logging in from home over the weekend but wish me luck with the arrogant man-child I have living at home!

    Best of British mate.... see you mon. stay strong. xxx ;)

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